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10.02.1979 12.16.2016FOREVER Began Today Brian Jerome Parham 'TINY MOE LOC''Meet chu at da Crossroads'

The Order of ServiceThe Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: forthou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest myhead with oil; my cup runneth over.Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in thehouse of the Lord for ever. January 21, 2017

His Babies~Malikai~"Dad… We haven’t been with you enough to knoweverything about you, but have been with you enoughto Love You and Miss You dearly"Kiyan, Ahmari, Sapriah, Malikai, Empress, Keyshaun~Ahmari~~Kiyan~~Sapriah~~Empress~~Keyshun~

His LifeStoryBrian Jerome Parham aka ‘Tiny Moe Loc’ was bornOctober 2nd, 1979 in Los Angeles, California to the unionof Willie James Parham (06/26/1951 – 05/21/2010) andBianca Christine (Miller) (09/16/1955 – 09/16/2016).Tragically, Brian was killed in a car accident on thefreeway in Visalia, California on 12/16/2016.Raised by the streets of LA, and educated by the State ofCalifornia ‘School of Hard Knocks’ penal system, Brianused the life lessons learned from both to define hissense of Loyalty, Honor, and Respect.He left South Central in June of 2002 and relocated toChico, California to get a fresh perspective on what Lifehad to offer with his best friend, his Keeper, his BigBrother - Kym Parham. The love shared between thesetwo cannot be measured in mere words. They built alifetime of memories, and shared many adventures thatcemented their bond as brothers and best friends thatcan never be broken. When you think about Brian aftertoday, say a Prayer over Kym as His heart is broken andpieces of Him left when Brian transitioned. Brians’ favorite things included Loving his kids, Lovinghis siblings, Hustlin’, Reppin Venice ShoLine, goingfishing, blowin’ trees, shopping for gear, attendingfamily functions, Henney, pepperoni pizza, McDonaldscheeseburgers and fries, no pickles, no onions, andSprite soda.Sleep in Peace Baby boi

His LifeStoryHe dreamed of utilizing all his street hustling skills andopening legit businesses to create income to supportall of his children properly and to leave to them as hislegacy. It was important to him to give them what hehimself never had as a kid. It was important to him thathis children would be Proud to be called his babies.Brian leaves to cherish his memory the followingLoved ones:His Children and their Mothers:Kiyan Jamir Parham – 1.5 years old Ahmari Keanu Chantara – 3.5 years old(*Amanda Chantara - Chico, California)Sapriah Mylove Jinae Parham – 9 years old(*LaToya McDaniel - Chico, California)Malikai Jamarr Parham – 11.5 years old(*Sumir McDaniel - Chico, California)Empress Caprice Valezquez - 12 years old(*Lupe Valezquez - Chico, California)Keyshun James Parham – 20 years old(*Shymill Murphy (RIP - Fortworth, Texas)His Siblings:Kym Parham, Chico, CaliforniaShawn Parham, Los Angeles, CaliforniaCharise (Poonie) Parham, Los Angeles, CaliforniaMaurice (Deland) Miller, Atlanta, GeorgiaLaTanya Paskins, Los Angeles, CaliforniaHis Grandmother, Barbara Miller, Beggs, Oklahoma;Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Nieces, Nephews, In-Laws,Outlaws, and Hoodborn to mourn his loss.

His Siblings If Roses Grow in HeavenIf roses grow in Heaven,Lord please pick a bunch for me,Place them in my Brother's armsAnd tell him they are from Pooney.Tell him we love him and I miss him,And when He turns to smile,Place a kiss upon his cheek.And hold him for awhile.Because remembering Brian is easy,I do it every day.But there's an ache in my heartThat will never go away.Love, pooneyLaTanya PaskinsCharise 'Pooney' ParhamShawn ParhamKym ParhamMaurice Deland Miller If Roses Grow in HeavenIf roses grow in Heaven,Lord please pick a bunch for me,Place them in my Brother's armsAnd tell him they are from Pooney.Tell him we love him and I miss him,And when He turns to smile,Place a kiss upon his cheek.And hold him for awhile.Because remembering Brian is easy,I do it every day.But there's an ache in my heartThat will never go away.Love, pooney

To My Love,I never thought that this day would come where I would have to write a letter to my husband, best friend and kids fatherwho God called home so soon.I was at work when I got the call " sis Brian is gone." I couldn't except what I heard nor did I want to believe or comprehendit. I cried, I screamed and cried some more and almost fainted. I tried convincing myself that it was just a dream so I closedmy eyes just to open it back up knowing that it was actually reality.At that very moment I felt my heart break, it torn in two, one side filled with so much damn heartache and the other diedwith you.I stayed up all night that night crying softly as to not wake the kids lying alongside of me. Every cry sent another stabof pain through my fragmented heart.You know it's so crazy how one day you can wake up and your whole life can change unexpectedly. You don't know howyour gonna deal with it and live life without someone you pictured spending your whole life with yet you learn how to tryand figure it out day by day.Every night I lie awake with tears upon my cheeks knowing that I will never fall asleep or wake up to you besides me everagain. It's unbearable knowing that I will never see your face, hear your voice or feel your touch.I have so much hatred and hurt in my heart to where I don't know how to think or feel. No matter what we went through, thepetty arguments and the feeling that no one loved or cared about you, I did. I always loved you whether it was near orfar. No matter how hard or hurt I was I never ever gave up on you baby I still stuck around and fought for us because Iknew, and you knew that what we had was something special. Looking back ten yrs ago... man I remember all the times I would just run from you or didn't wanna give u the time of day.You showed up everywhere you knew I was at and I would try to just shake you. You never gave up on me, you chased me tilyou got me. You blessed me with a beautiful son who reminds me and the family so much of you. From the way he walks, hislittle smirk, the looks he gives us and how much he eats...that's all you.You fathered and took in Ahmari like he was your own. I felt that you loved him more than Kiyan which was OK because inyour own words you said he taught you how to be a dad. You gave them boys the world, they were your life as you said.You were my everything Brian, my heart and soul. I gave you my all, did right by you and almost anything you'd ask me to Iwould do for you. I never lied to you. I was loyal to you and tried to give you my all, and thethought of cheating or messing around on you never crossed my mind. I always kept the communication open on my end toassure u that you knew what and where I was at when I wasn't with you or our boys. You were supposed to be the one I'dspend my life with, 50yrs is what you've asked of me and I was willing to give you that and more.I cried for you; everything you lost in your life. I cry for the boys. They worshipped you, adored you. Now fatherless withnothing but memories to think back on, pictures to look back on, and videos of you that make them smile. Without them Iwouldn't know where I would be. They've been keeping me sane reminding me that I have them to look after and take care ofthem as their mother and father from this day out.There's not a day, minute or second that goes by where I don't think of you. I will always cherish all of the moments thatwe had together. The pictures of you ill hold close to my heart. You are always in my periphery. Always lingering in thesteps I take and the breath I breathe. I see your face in a hundred different faces and innocent eyes. You will always havea place in my heart baby and my heart will always beat for you. Life and everything doesn't seem to make much sense and itdoesn't feel complete without you in it. Just know that I will always love you. Forever in my heart, my mind and my soul.Until we meet again baby, you're now our guardian angel from above.Love always your wife,aMANDATo My Love,I never thought that this day would come where I would have to write a letter to my husband, best friend and kids fatherwho God called home so soon.I was at work when I got the call " sis Brian is gone." I couldn't except what I heard nor did I want to believe or comprehendit. I cried, I screamed and cried some more and almost fainted. I tried convincing myself that it was just a dream so I closedmy eyes just to open it back up knowing that it was actually reality.At that very moment I felt my heart break, it torn in two, one side filled with so much damn heartache and the other diedwith you.I stayed up all night that night crying softly as to not wake the kids lying alongside of me. Every cry sent another stabof pain through my fragmented heart.You know it's so crazy how one day you can wake up and your whole life can change unexpectedly. You don't know howyour gonna deal with it and live life without someone you pictured spending your whole life with yet you learn how to tryand figure it out day by day.Every night I lie awake with tears upon my cheeks knowing that I will never fall asleep or wake up to you besides me everagain. It's unbearable knowing that I will never see your face, hear your voice or feel your touch.I have so much hatred and hurt in my heart to where I don't know how to think or feel. No matter what we went through, thepetty arguments and the feeling that no one loved or cared about you, I did. I always loved you whether it was near orfar. No matter how hard or hurt I was I never ever gave up on you baby I still stuck around and fought for us because Iknew, and you knew that what we had was something special. Looking back ten yrs ago... man I remember all the times I would just run from you or didn't wanna give u the time of day.You showed up everywhere you knew I was at and I would try to just shake you. You never gave up on me, you chased me tilyou got me. You blessed me with a beautiful son who reminds me and the family so much of you. From the way he walks, hislittle smirk, the looks he gives us and how much he eats...that's all you.You fathered and took in Ahmari like he was your own. I felt that you loved him more than Kiyan which was OK because inyour own words you said he taught you how to be a dad. You gave them boys the world, they were your life as you said.You were my everything Brian, my heart and soul. I gave you my all, did right by you and almost anything you'd ask me to Iwould do for you. I never lied to you. I was loyal to you and tried to give you my all, and thethought of cheating or messing around on you never crossed my mind. I always kept the communication open on my end toassure u that you knew what and where I was at when I wasn't with you or our boys. You were supposed to be the one I'dspend my life with, 50yrs is what you've asked of me and I was willing to give you that and more.I cried for you; everything you lost in your life. I cry for the boys. They worshipped you, adored you. Now fatherless withnothing but memories to think back on, pictures to look back on, and videos of you that make them smile. Without them Iwouldn't know where I would be. They've been keeping me sane reminding me that I have them to look after and take care ofthem as their mother and father from this day out.There's not a day, minute or second that goes by where I don't think of you. I will always cherish all of the moments thatwe had together. The pictures of you ill hold close to my heart. You are always in my periphery. Always lingering in thesteps I take and the breath I breathe. I see your face in a hundred different faces and innocent eyes. You will always havea place in my heart baby and my heart will always beat for you. Life and everything doesn't seem to make much sense and itdoesn't feel complete without you in it. Just know that I will always love you. Forever in my heart, my mind and my soul.Until we meet again baby, you're now our guardian angel from above.Love always your wife,aMANDA

GOD needed a HOODBORN so He called 'TINY MOE LOC' homeAcknowledgedActive PallbearersTYRONE JOHNSONKYM PARHAMSHAWN PARHAMDAVID PURCELLTONY WEBSTERHonorary PallbearersDEWAYNE PARHAM SRKEYSHAUN PARHAMrepast immediately following:st bridgid catholic churchmulti-purpose room5214 s western ave. los angeles, ca 90062Music Playlist - DJ TERRYMortuary Services by:ANGELUS FUNERAL HOME3875 South Crenshaw Blvd.Los Angeles, Ca. 90008Obituary Design by:Hoodborn Funeral Planning Serviceswww.Hoodborn.ORGHoodBornHoodBornDon't grieve for me, for now I'm freeI'm following the path God laid for meI took his hand when I heard his callI turned my back and left it allI could not stay another dayTo laugh, to love, to work, to playTasks left undone must stay that wayI've found that peace at the close of the dayIf my parting has left a voidThen fill it with remembered joyA friendship shared, a laugh, a kissAh yes, these things I too will missBe not burdened with times of sorrowI wish you the sunshine of tomorrowMy Life's been full, I savoured muchGood friends, good times, a loved one's touchPerhaps my time seemed all too briefDon't lengthen it now with undue griefLift up your heart and share with meGod wanted me now, He set me freeI'M FREE