Loretta G. Breuning PhDInner Mammal Instituteinnermammalinstitute.orgby Loretta Breuning, PhD Rowman LittlefieldStatus GamesWhy We Play and How to Stop
Sept. 8Rowman LittlefieldSBN-10 : 1538144190ISBN-13 : 978-1538144190
People care about status because animals care about status
human cortexanimal brainWe’ve inherited the limbic brain that motivates this
Your mammal brain rewards you with a drip of serotonin when you raise your status
Serotoninis not aggression.It’s the calm sense that“ I will get the banana ”
Serotonin is soon metabolized, so you have to keep seeking theone-up position to keep feeling it
The good feeling motivates you to repeat behaviors thatraise your status
I’m not saying we should think this way, but we do
Natural selection built a brain that makes social comparisons to promote its own survival
It rewards you with serotonin when you gaina position of strength
It alarms you with cortisol when you see a potential threat to your relative position
You don’t think this in words because the animal brain cannot process language
These facts were revealed by a century of research on mammalian social behavior, but now they are taboo
It’s easy to see the mammalian urge for status in others, especially those you don’t like
It’s easy to see the one-up impulse throughout human history
It’s hard to see it in yourself, your friends, and cute furry creatures
But getting real aboutthese feelings gives youpower over them
Neurons connect when serotonin flows,so whatever raised your status in the past wired you to expect good feelings from that
We all see the world through the lens of our old neural pathways
We all keep striving to stimulate serotonin and avoid cortisol in ways that worked before
We all create one-down feelings and one-up feelings despite our best intentions
We all keep making social comparisons because it’s a core mammalian survival impulse
What’s abig-brained mammalto do?
Status Games shows you healthy ways to give your inner mammal what it needs to feel good
It helps you put yourself up without putting others down
It helps you spark serotonin without junk status
It helps you manage the cortisol of one-down moments
Repetition will build new pathways so it feels normal
You will always be a mammal among mammals
You have power over your brain but notthe brains of others
You can wire yourself to enjoy nature’s serotonin
You’ll be glad you did!
Your questions are invited:Loretta@InnerMammalInstitute.org