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Loretta G. Breuning PhDInner Mammal Instituteinnermammalinstitute.orgby Loretta Breuning, PhD Rowman LittlefieldStatus GamesWhy We Play and How to Stop

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Sept. 8Rowman LittlefieldSBN-10 : 1538144190ISBN-13 : 978-1538144190

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People care about status because animals care about status

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human cortexanimal brainWe’ve inherited the limbic brain that motivates this

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Your mammal brain rewards you with a drip of serotonin when you raise your status

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Serotoninis not aggression.It’s the calm sense that“ I will get the banana ”

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Serotonin is soon metabolized, so you have to keep seeking theone-up position to keep feeling it

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The good feeling motivates you to repeat behaviors thatraise your status

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I’m not saying we should think this way, but we do

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Natural selection built a brain that makes social comparisons to promote its own survival

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It rewards you with serotonin when you gaina position of strength

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It alarms you with cortisol when you see a potential threat to your relative position

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You don’t think this in words because the animal brain cannot process language

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These facts were revealed by a century of research on mammalian social behavior, but now they are taboo

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It’s easy to see the mammalian urge for status in others, especially those you don’t like

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It’s easy to see the one-up impulse throughout human history

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It’s hard to see it in yourself, your friends, and cute furry creatures

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But getting real aboutthese feelings gives youpower over them

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Neurons connect when serotonin flows,so whatever raised your status in the past wired you to expect good feelings from that

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We all see the world through the lens of our old neural pathways

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We all keep striving to stimulate serotonin and avoid cortisol in ways that worked before

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We all create one-down feelings and one-up feelings despite our best intentions

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We all keep making social comparisons because it’s a core mammalian survival impulse

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What’s abig-brained mammalto do?

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Status Games shows you healthy ways to give your inner mammal what it needs to feel good

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It helps you put yourself up without putting others down

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It helps you spark serotonin without junk status

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It helps you manage the cortisol of one-down moments

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Repetition will build new pathways so it feels normal

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You will always be a mammal among mammals

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You have power over your brain but notthe brains of others

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You can wire yourself to enjoy nature’s serotonin

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You’ll be glad you did!

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Your questions are invited:Loretta@InnerMammalInstitute.org