There may be some reasons why writers write grief poetry, for instance,
personal loss, depression, family issues, societal problems and the socio-
political and economic condition of Nigeria, and so on. When Samuel A.
Adeyemi was asked by Semilore Kilaso in an interview, on the subject of
grief, he stated that “the subject of grief is inexhaustible, and being a
Nigerian is primarily a contributor to it… it is difficult to write about
butterflies and roses when people are dying in the street.” He succinctly
captures this in his poem thus: “You call me poet, I am just nineteen &
elevating GRIEF, all my verses, sibling holding themselves.”
To discuss the subject of grief requires that we understand how different
poets have been able to explore it using the vehicle of language, mood,
tone, and what they seek to achieve with the poem. It is important to
consider the works of some poets as they treat this subject of grief
beginning with Rasaq Malik Gbolahan’s latest poem “Ode to the Sea”
published in Transition Magazine. In the poem, the poet addresses ‘grief’ as
something tangible, like a catalyst instead of being the byproduct of
whatever negative action or the event that has been triggered: /the grief
that startles the waters does not have a name/ like the remains of the dead
after a war…/ and the lines that followed opens the reader into the heart of
the poet, articulating his mood and the emotion behind his poetically
ferried thoughts:/sometimes it appears that there are countless bodies
settling, like sediment, beneath the immeasurable body of the sea/ think of
names buried in the stillness of an evening, the fishermen returning home
with losses to meet dying wives…/ The imageries in the poem are quite
intense, showcasing activities, for instance, the sea, as used in the poem,
does not necessarily speak of a mass of water although it appears so. Water
here, like grief, hides all things. This, the poet establishes: /that water, as
simple as it sounds on our tongues, is a repository of grief…/ the poet ends
the poem thus: /as another news of drowning reaches us whose lives are
cradled in despair, us whose names will dissolve in the water of
forgetfulness when death leads us to the end of the world. / This is because
everything in life ends in grief.
In Saddiq Dzukogi’s poem “Shahada” on page 42 of his book “Your Crib,
My Qibla”, the poet mourns his daughter in a way that makes grief appear
as light as the feathers of a butterfly: /today Baha is not dead- her tears
reveal deep love for him. He prays his daughter’s hand turns the sponge
that would wash his corpse – the rite of passage pressed into her forehead,