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Message WILDFLOWERSPRESENTED BY:PETAL & POSE BOUDOIR P r e m i e r e e d i t i o nw w w . p e t a l a n d p o s e b o u d o i r . c o mA bouquet of Wisconsin women’s stories of growth, self love and self discovery
Welcome Wildflower!Rooted in resilience, this space is for a bouquet ofpersonal growth, confidence, and transformationfeaturing Wisconsin women who have stepped intotheir power, embraced their journeys, and redefinedwhat beauty means to them.Each page is filled with heartfelt stories, beautifulimagery, and inspiration meant to uplift and connect us.Wildflowers Magazine isn’t just about looking beautiful,it’s about feeling it, owning it, and sharing that lightwith others. Because like wildflowers, women thrivewhen they allow themselves to bloom freely. Wildflowers Magazine is a celebration of resilience, self-love, and the raw beauty of real Wisconsin women Presented by Petal and Pose Boudoir - Medford WIThe ladies featured in this issue chose towrite their own stories or do an interview style article.The stories and experiences shared inWildflowers Magazine are the personalaccounts of the individuals featured. Theirwords, perspectives, and opinions are theirown and do not necessarily reflect the viewsof Petal and Pose Boudoir or its affiliates.Wildflowers Magazine serves as a platformfor self-expression and storytelling.
Watch Chris’s video interview here:A JOURNEYTHROUGHWOMANHOOD"Well, I have been on a completelydifferent journey for the lastprobably 20 years. I got very sick,and then I had extreme issues withcancer and other stuff, whichdoesn't define a woman. But also, awoman likes to feel her best,especially when you're athletic, andthen you go from being athletic tonot. I had my kids, and that was mygoal—I didn't care what else, just aslong as I made it.Then I went into remission. I had mygastric bypass, and it was like awhole new me. I wanted to show itoff—how far you can go if you putyour mind to something. I wentthrough multiple surgeries andradiation treatments. I just got done with a major surgeryfour weeks ago.""What made you want toparticipate in the Wildflower magazine project?
A Quick Reset to Refresh &Recharge in just a minuteTension Release Ritual Take a deep breath, then useyour fingertips to gentlymassage your temples,jawline, and neck.This eases tension, boostscirculation, and gives you amoment of calm.Bonus: Apply a drop ofessential oil (lavender forrelaxation, citrus for energy).Mini Face & Scalp MassageClose your eyes and gentlymassage your temples,jawline, or scalp.This releases tension, improvescirculation, and leaves youfeeling refreshed.Bonus: Use a jade roller or adrop of facial oil for an extrasoothing effect.The Posture ResetStand up straight, roll yourshoulders back,and lift your chin.Good posture instantly makesyou feel (and look!)more confident.Bonus: Walk around for aminute as if you own theroom!Self CareTime-OutConfidence Reflection &Growth Worksheet Instructions: Take a fewmoments to reflect and writedown your thoughts on yourown paper. There are no rightor wrong answers, just honesty,love, and growth. What is one negative thoughtyou often have aboutyourself?Now, could you reframe it intoa positive, empoweringstatement? Example: “I’m notgood enough” “I amconstantly growing andlearning, and I am worthy justas I am.”Celebrating WinsList three things you’veaccomplished in the past year,big or small.How did these moments makeyou feel?Mirror TalkIf your best friend spoke toherself the way you sometimesdo, what would you say to her?Now, say those words toyourself.Confidence AnchorsWhat are three things thatmake you feel confident? (A song, an outfit, an activity, a mantra, etc.)How can you incorporate theminto your daily life?Future Self Love LetterWrite a short, encouragingnote to your future self. Whatdo you want her to rememberwhen she needs a confidenceboost?Confidence You Can FeelYour confidence isn’t just in yourmind, it lives in your body, yoursenses, and the way you movethrough the world. Use thissimple exercise to reconnectwith yourself through sight,sound, touch, taste, and smell.Sight: See Yourself with LoveFind a mirror and take a momentto look at yourself, not to critique,but to appreciate.What is one feature you loveabout yourself?Say something kindto your reflection.Sound: Your Power AnthemThink of a song that makes youfeel strong, beautiful, or powerful.Play it loud, sing along, or danceif you feel like it!Touch: A Confidence AnchorFind a physical action thatgrounds you: Placing a hand overyour heart, standing tall, orwearing something that makesyou feel amazing.Notice how your body respondsto confidence. Smell: Scent & MemoryThink of a scent that makes youfeel happy or empowered(perfume, fresh flowers,coffee, etc.).Take a deep breath. Let it remindyou of a time when you feltstrong and unstoppable.Taste: Indulge in JoyTreat yourself to a small, mindfulmoment of indulgence. A pieceof chocolate, fresh fruit, or yourfavorite snack.Enjoy it without guilt.Confidence is about pleasureand presence, too.Takeaway: Confidence isn’t justsomething you “have” or “don’thave”. It’s something you canfeel and cultivate througheveryday moments. The moreyou connect with yourself, thestronger it grows.
"My name is Isabelle I am 27 years old, I am bisexual, and Iam a survivor of sexual assault andchild molestation. I will advocate andspeak for one’s who are too afraid tospeak out themselves, one way oranother, because no matter what, thetruth will always come to light.”IZZY WAS ABLE TO FEELBEAUTIFUL, POWERFUL...and she would love to share her story with you “I will be transparent here, I washesitant to participate in this projecthere in the Northcentral Wisconsinarea given the current politicalclimate. I was born and raised in thePrice County area until I movedacross the state without warning in2016 (other than my immediatefamily). Instead of facing my issuesheadstrong, I used my pride and mywork to hide the pain I was feelinginside." "I pursued and completed mydegree in Criminal Justice andPsychology. I recall working through the 2020Covid Pandemic. I worked myselfuntil I burned out and realized that Ican no longer run from my pain andsuffering anymore. I have learned Ithought I was going well by “lettingthe dead bury the dead” (I wasraised Catholic). I can no longer burythis with me."
Turtle Bay Gardens isn’t just abackdrop - it’s a celebration ofthe undeniable truth that you,like the flowers, are worthy ofbeing captured in full bloom.When you book your boudoirexperience at Petal and Poseyou have exclusive access to theon site flower farmTurtle Bay GardensFrom the first daffodils in Springto the last dahlias before frost,you can embrace your innerWildflower in the unique beautyof the fieldTurtle Bay Gardensis located on-siteat Petal & Pose Boudoir!Flowers don’t apologize for taking up space. Theyreach, stretch, and flourish, unapologetically bold,wildly free. Each petal tells a story of resilience, ofseasons endured and beauty that refuses to behidden. That’s the energy of Turtle Bay Gardens.That’s the energy I want every woman to embracewhen she walks through my studio doors.You are not meant to be small. You are not meant toshrink or blend into the background. Like theflowers that bloom here, you are meant to take upspace, to be seen, to be admired, and to remind theworld that beauty exists in every stage of growth.Sunflowers & Sass
Reclaiming Power:Owning Our Triggers, Boundaries, & Emotional Well-BeingContinue reading on the blog:www.petalandposeboudoir.com/blogThink of boundaries like a fence. A good fence helps define ourspace, but it's not designed to trapanyone. Its primary purpose is toprotect what's inside. If something gets through thefence, it's not necessarily theintruder's fault; it might mean thefence needs strengthening. Similarly, if I know a certain moviescene might be difficult for me, anda friend invites me to watch it, it'snot their job to censor the film forme. It's my choice whether or notto watch. And if a tough scenecomes up, it's on me to manage myreaction – maybe I step out for amoment, or ask my friend if we canskip ahead. How I process that experienceafterward? That's also part of my journey.This isn't about blaming orshaming. It's about reclaiming ourpower. It's about recognizing thatin this world, the one thing we trulycontrol is our own thoughts,responses, and actions. And in thatspace, in that self-awareness, wecan grow into confident, secureindividuals, capable of navigatinglife's challenges with resilience andgrace. It's about taking ownershipof our stories and writing the nextchapter with courage andcompassion, both for ourselves andfor others.It feels like we're living in a timewhere the idea of personalresponsibility has gotten a littlefuzzy, especially when we talk aboutmental health and the impact ofpast experiences. We all carry some kind ofemotional baggage, right? Butsomewhere along the line, itseems we've started shifting thefocus outward, almost expectingothers to manage our inner worldfor us. This idea that someone else isresponsible for "triggering" us, orthat boundaries are rules othersmust follow, feels incrediblydisempowering. It hands over ourpersonal power and makes ouremotional well-being dependenton someone else's behavior. Andhonestly, I think that'sfundamentally wrong.My triggers, my reactions, myemotional landscape – thosebelong to me. It's my journey tounderstand what stirs things upinside, to learn healthy ways tocope, and to manage thosefeelings. And a huge part of that is beingable to articulate what I need fromothers. It's my responsibility tocommunicate clearly and kindlyabout what feels safe andrespectful to me. If, after I've expressed my needs,someone chooses to disregardthem, then I get to choose how torespond. Do I address it? Do Ineed to create more distance?That's my call. It's about owningmy experience.
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Is Boudoir for you?Hello beautiful! I’m Melissa, your photographer and hype girl! I’d love to chat boudoir with you,simply visit the websiteor text me! We’ll have a virtual coffeetogether and a quick chat aboutwhat your session will look like!Boudoir photography is more than justbeautiful images of yourself- it’s an experienceof self-discovery and confidence.Imagine seeing yourself in a new light,embracing the curves, lines, and the storiesyour body tells all while celebrating the womanyou are today. Whether you’re stepping in front of the camerato mark a milestone, reclaim your confidence,or simply remind yourself of your own beauty,boudoir is a deeply personal and empoweringjourney.At Petal and Pose Boudoir, your experience isdesigned to be fun, uplifting, and curated justfor you!From the moment you walk in, you’re in aspace that honors your unique beauty.Every woman deserves to feel desirable,empowered, and unapologetically herself!Boudoir photography creates a space wherethat transformation can happen. It’s not about changing who you are; it’s aboutrevealing the beauty, resilience, and fire that’salready within you.www.petalandposeboudoir.com715-560-3903Imagine the confidence you'll feel when yousee yourself displayed as art on the wall oropen your nightstand drawer to find your ownbeauty looking back at you.Every glance is a reminder of your strength,your beauty, and the fearless woman you are. You deserve to see yourself the way theworld sees you - confident, radiant, andabsolutely worthy!Let’s make it happen!
Dating, Motherhood andRedefining BeautyBeth answers a few questions that are on the minds of women in 2025RedefiningMotherhood:Motherhood comes inmany forms. Do you havea unique perspective onmotherhood, or are youchoosing a child-freepath? How do you definemotherhood for yourselfin today's world?"I am personally choosing achild free path. I enjoyspending time withchildren but I am currentlynot ready for thatresponsibility, I may changemy mind one day but theydo not fit well with mycurrent lifestyle. I feel thatthe pressure from societyto have children needs toend, children deserveparents that are fullycommitted to puttingthem first and not everyoneis in a position to do that.It's a personal choice andneither decision is wrong"Dating in the DigitalAge:Dating apps havetransformed thelandscape. What are yourthoughts on moderndating, and what advicewould you give to womennavigating the onlineworld?"I think that dating appscan be a wonderful thingbut definitely add moreuncertainty to the datingworld. It's very hard toknow who to trust. They'realso more suited for a morepopulated area, in smalltowns they're harder to usesuccessfully unless you'rewilling to travel a distanceto meet someone. Myadvice would be to becautious but keep an openmind, the right one mightbe someone you leastexpect"Redefining Beauty:Beauty comes in allshapes, sizes, andethnicities. How do youdefine beauty for yourself,and what message do youwant to send to youngergenerations?"I've experienced thepressure to fit in andconform to the standarddepiction of beauty formost of my life and as I'vegotten older I've gottenpast that. I'm my opinionthe greatest beauty isfound in what makes youunique, things you find joyin and are passionateabout. The message I'd liketo send to youngergenerations is don't worrytoo much about whatpeople think or aboutfitting it, be yourself andthe right people will see thebeauty in it"
Imagine my surprise at the idea I wasgoing to decorate saran wrap as aninfant's first blanket. Scary, but I put lots ofstickers on her first blanket. Lots of lipstickprints, hearts and motivational words. Itwas magnificent. I loved her so much.About 5 days of the rollercoaster ofmedications and Kelsey losing weight to15 ounces, think a pound of butter, on aTuesday she came down with a terriblestaph infection and the doctors gentlytold us we could expect her to go hometo heaven on Thursday. I never felt so sadand alone.The nurses in the NICU were amazingand helpful and caring and always hadtime to talk with the mother of such asmall baby. They even had a fashionphoto shoot of her in different Christmasoutfits as the holiday was quicklyapproaching. I had to go back to work part time so I would beable to take a maternity leave if we would ever leavethe hospital with her. I had so much to learn.Kelsey was on so many medications includingmorphine because some times when she movedher very thin skin would tear and she would cry.Antibiotics and blood pressure medications andsteroids that made her cheeks swell. Continue reading Erin and Kelsey’s story on theblog- scan the QR code or visitwww.petalandposeboudoir.com/blogEyes open but on the ventilator and a big IV bag as her first water bed and a 2x4 gauze bandage asher first diaper. the knit hat was huge on her, but somehow appropriate of the situation. The nursesgave me plastic wrap that was fortified on the outside with nylon tape. They told me it would be her first blanket and to decorate it as I wished”GREAT CHECKUPS, EVERYTHING NORMAL, LIFE WAS GOOD“
Continue reading , visitwww.petalandposeboudoir.com/blog!I went straight from child towife to mom ...now I’m finding me again!"For myself, beauty is confidence. I want youngergenerations to know that they don’t have to fit inany sort of mold or follow any mainstream ideas tobe beautiful. Find what you love and rock it withconfidence and you will be beautiful."Now I’ve learned thatconfidence is whatmakes a personbeautiful. I’m now 30and have never beenmore confident or feltso beautiful. I look atmy scars, stretchmarks, and the littlesigns of aging andknow what my bodyhas been through and Ilove it for what it’sbeen able to do forme.""After having my firstchild at 20 years old mybody drasticallychanged, it was reallyhard to accept mybody for what it wasafter giving birthbecause I didn’t havethe body most peoplemy age had. As I grewand had another child Ifinally started findingmyself again in my late20’s. I started dressinghow I felt confidentinstead of trying tohide myself. REDEFINING BEAUTY: BEAUTY COMES IN ALLSHAPES, SIZES, AND ETHNICITIES. HOW DO YOUDEFINE BEAUTY FOR YOURSELF, AND WHATMESSAGE DO YOU WANT TO SEND TO YOUNGERGENERATIONS?BODY IMAGE & SELF-LOVE: THE MEDIA CONSTANTLYBOMBARDS US WITH BEAUTY STANDARDS. HOW DO YOUCULTIVATE A POSITIVE BODY IMAGE AND PRACTICESELF-LOVE?Me in a nutshell- I met my husband of 11 yearswhen I was 17, got married at 18, had mydaughter at 20 and my son at 24. I started findingmyself outside of the title of mom over the lastyear and a half and never looked back. I startedtreating my anxiety and getting that undercontrol and I started loving my body and what it’sdone for me. I started dressing how I feelconfident. I turned 30 recently and have neverbeen more confident and happy. I finally startedsetting boundaries and taking time for myselfwithout feeling the dreaded mom guilt. I wentstraight from child to wife to mom and now I’mfinding me again!
This beautiful wildflower is one of my besties! While you can read her own words on the blog,this is my story of her - Melissa, photographer Unstoppable Bloom: The Wildflower Living Life to the FullestIf you ask me to describe her, I’d tell you she’s thekind of person who walks into a room andsomehow makes it brighter. Not because of howshe looks (though she’s effortlessly beautiful) butbecause she carries a spark, an energy, a light, thatrefuses to dim, no matter what life throws at her.And life has thrown a lot.She’s battled more health issues than anyoneshould have to face in a lifetime.A body that sometimes betrays her, pain thatsneaks in uninvited, days stolen by exhaustion anddoctors’ appointments. But you wouldn’t know it unless she told you,because she’s too busy living.Want to read herown words?Check out the blog:She’s the one planning road trips when shebarely has the energy to pack. The one hiking the trails when the scenery calls,even if her body protests. The one who insists on staying up late underthe stars, hunting for elusive glowing rocksHer resilience isn’t just about surviving. It’sabout choosing joy.And that’s just who she is. She doesn’t ignorethe struggle, she feels it, she acknowledges it,but she refuses to let it be the only thing thatdefines her.
The Juggle is Real: Manywomen manage careers andfamilies. How do you findmoments for yourself amidstthe daily chaos?"I am a mom of 4 and a wife afarmer and also help run 3companies along side him.I find my alone time in theshower to relax when kids goto bed. And to just shut mymind off.There are some days my littlesgo to daycare and I try to get a30 min massage before myphone goes of with a part runor cow issue and I am back torunning all over.Time is hard and sometimesthe little bit of time is enoughbut there there is time likegoing grocery shopping withno kids I take that as a greattime to myself .I feel as a mother there is notmuch time for my selfbecause it is alwayssomething with my kids"Redefining Strength:Strength comes in manyforms. What does strengthmean to you, and how doyou cultivate it in your dailylife?"Strength to me is more thanwhat you can lift. Strength ishow we handle our familiesfrom falling apart and runningour kids to every sport orevent we can.Strength is for independencewhere we don't have to havemen help us.It is also standing up foryourself and going above andbeyond."The Power of Friendship:Strong female friendshipsare essential. How do yourgirlfriends support you, andhow do you nurture theseimportant relationships?"My Girlfriends support me if Iam having a tough time andtell me you will get throughthis and you are strong.They are my to go to when Ineed to talk and they justlisten and don't judge.I Feel like my mom friends arethe best because theyunderstand how you feel andhow we get through ittogether."Breaking Barriers: Have youever faced challengesbecause of your gender?How did you overcomethem, and what advicewould you give to youngerwomen facing similarobstacles?"Myself I have faced somechallenges when a man saysare you sure you know how torun that piece of equipmentor how they say do you knowwhat parts you really needmaybe you should call yourhusband.I have always told them yes Ido know what I need becauseI am the one fixing the part.They seem to get upset whenI know what I am talkingabout.We are in a world wherewomen can do as much as aman for equipment. But menseem to still think they areright and know better whenthey are not"Breaking Barriers: Thriving in a Man’s World
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Your story deserves the spotlightShare it with with us Wildflowers grow where they’re planted,but they also bloom where they choose. Let this issue be a reminder that you arestrong, beautiful, and ever-evolving. Keep growing, keep loving yourself, and keep embracing your story.Until next time,MelissaFounder of Wildflowers Magazine & Petaland Pose BoudoirSee yourself in the pages of Wildflowers Magazine!Have a story to share? Express your viewpoints? A boudoir experience with Petal and Pose Boudoircould be your next chapter715-560-3903www.petalandposeboudoir.comThank you to our incredible community ofwomen who shared their hearts in this issue.Wildflowers exists because of you!