FrameworkDomainsComponentsDiscipline and EmpowermentRelationships and Family CultureLanguage of TraumaRegulationSafety
D O M A I N 1Relationships andFamily Culture
What Do Children Learn in a Family?→ Self-regulation→ Communication Skills→ Social skills and manners→ How to connect (empathy)→ Love for self and self-identity→ Hierarchy (trust)→Safety→Life skills→Hygiene and self-respect→Unconditional love
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1NeocortexMid-Brain(Limbic System)Reptilian Brain
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1NeocortexReptilian BrainMid-Brain(Limbic System)
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Demonstrate a Forever Commitment
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Demonstrate a Forever Commitment
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Demonstrate a Forever Commitment
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Hold Regular Family Meetings
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Hold Regular Family Meetings
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Establish and Post Class Values
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Establish and Post Class Values
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Establish and Post Class Values
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Celebrate Traditions
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Post Pictures of StudentsCelebrate Traditions
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Post Pictures of Students
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1Post Pictures of Students
DOMAIN 1Family Culture1
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DOMAIN 1Teacher-Student Relationships2Welcome Students Into the ClassroomSmile and Be Authentic
Welcome Students Into the Building
DOMAIN 1Teacher-Student Relationships2Welcome Students Into the Classroom
DOMAIN 1Teacher-Student Relationships2Welcome Students on Campus
DOMAIN 1Teacher-Student Relationships2Create Dedicated Connection Times
DOMAIN 1Teacher-Student Relationships2Create Dedicated Connection Times
DOMAIN 1Teacher-Student Relationships2Create Dedicated Connection Times
DOMAIN 1Establish and Enhance a No-Bullying Policy Student-Student Relationships3
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DOMAIN 1Student-Student Relationships3Create Intentional Student-Student Relationship-Building Activities
DOMAIN 1Student-Student Relationships3Create Intentional Student-Student Relationship-Building Activities
DOMAIN 1Student-Student Relationships3Create Intentional Student-Student Relationship-Building Activities
DOMAIN 1Trauma-Informed Peers
D O M A I N 2Regul ation
RegulationThe ability to experience and maintain stress within one’s window of tolerance. Generally referred to as being calm, focused, or relaxed. This term is utilized by literally every scientific discipline. DysregulationThe experience of stress outside of one’s window of tolerance, generally referred to as being stressed out or in a state of distress. It is believed that affect dysregulation is a fundamental mechanism involved in all psychiatric disorders.(Dr. Allan Schore - Affect Dysregulation and Disorders of the Self.)
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DOMAIN 2Transitional Support7
Wind chimeTransitional Support7
Wind chimeTransitional Support7
Transitional Support7
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
Individual Interventions8
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Awareness9
Awareness9
Awareness9
Awareness9
Awareness9
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DOMAIN 2BillyWindow of Stress Tolerance10Andy BillyBreaking PointBilly
D O M A I N 3Language ofTrauma
DOMAIN 3Minimizing
DOMAIN 3
DOMAIN 3Maximizi ng
DOMAIN 3“Discovery Mode”Table 3.9Page 147• Take the time to connect.• Determine what is driving the behavior.• Maximize instead of minimize the behavior.• Be open with a sense of curiosity.• Respect the importance of the issue.
DOMAIN 3I hate myself.I hate you.
DOMAIN 3I feel stupid and this assignment is only going to make me feel more stupid.This assignment is stupid.
DOMAIN 3I need you to know that I’m about to hit my window of stress tolerance.You’re really pissing me off!
DOMAIN 3My nervous system is overwhelmed.She gets on my nerves!
DOMAIN 3I’m scared that you’ll hurt me or reject me.You’re not in charge of me!
DOMAIN 3The only way for me to be okay right now is to disconnect.F#@*-off!
DOMAIN 3My life sucks.This sucks!
DOMAIN 31. I’m too scared to try.2. I’m too overwhelmed to tryI don’t care.
DOMAIN 3Right-Brain to Right-Brain De-Escalation13
DOMAIN 3Affect Tolerance14Responding vs. Reacting
DOMAIN 3Affect Tolerance14Responding vs. Reacting
DOMAIN 3Affect Tolerance14Responding vs. Reacting
DOMAIN 3Affect Tolerance14
DOMAIN 3
DOMAIN 3Lens of Lovevs.Lens of
If you’re Andy…
DOMAIN 3NeocortexMid-Brain(Limbic System)Reptilian Brain
If you’re Billy…
DOMAIN 3NeocortexMid-Brain(Limbic System)Reptilian Brain
If you’re Andy…
DOMAIN 3NeocortexMid-Brain(Limbic System)Reptilian Brain
If you’re Billy…
If you’re Billy…
If you’re Billy…
If you’re Billy…
If you’re Billy…
If you’re Billy…
DOMAIN 3Student demonstrates attention seeking behaviors.Student is in need of attention to feel like she belongs.
DOMAIN 3Student consistently violates classroom rules throughout the day.Student is chronically dysregulated and stays in a perpetual state of overwhelm.
DOMAIN 3Student eloped from the classroom.Student became overly scared and went into flight mode.
DOMAIN 3Student has problems with authority.Student is scared of those with authority.
DOMAIN 3
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Discipline and EmpowermentRelationships and Family CultureLanguage of TraumaRegulationSafetyPRINCIPAL
Discipline and EmpowermentRelationships and Family CultureLanguage of TraumaRegulationSafetyTEACHER
Principal Teacher
D O M A I N 4Safety
DOMAIN 4SAFETY
DOMAIN 4
DOMAIN 4p. 178
DOMAIN 4
DOMAIN 4Openly Discuss Suicide Protocol
DOMAIN 4
DOMAIN 4
DOMAIN 4
DOMAIN 4Responding in the Moment of Crisis19p. 189
D O M A I N 5Discipline andEmpowerment
“I knew what Joe was going through…and he had to be held accountable. But I just felt like I had to go with him.”
“The walls…they didn’t exist anymore.”
Joe: “I don’t want to let you down. Ever.”
DOMAIN 5REGULATORY-BASED DISCIPLINE20
DOMAIN 5
DOMAIN 5REGULATORY-BASED DISCIPLINE20
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DOMAIN 5REPAIR AND HEALING22p. 221
“It’s when you’re trying to feel like you’re relating to the situation.”What does it mean to listen from the heart?
“By me owning it, it’s going to help me better.”
DOMAIN 5REPAIR AND HEALING22p. 223
121234567891011Cognitive Language Academic Social Physical Emotional13AGEDEVELOPMENTAndyBilly
I’m smartI can do anything.I’m awesome.220I really am dumb.I’m worthless.I’m a failure.FA+GRADES REINFORCE BELIEF SYSTEMS
Billy has no sense of self. No identity of being “alright.”Andy does.
224CONCLUSIONS ARE MADE BASED ON BEING EGOCENTRIC AS A CHILD.“I made my parent so angry. It’s my fault they are getting a divorce.”Divorce“I should have been better. I deserve to be treated this way.”Abuse“I must have been a bad baby to have been given away.”Adoption
I’m not goodenough.I don’t deserve to be on this planet!My teacher likes everyone except me.I’m stupid.
DOMAIN 5SELF-IMAGE AND IDENTITY DEVELOPMENT 26Affirmations
TODAY (REALITY):- Who are you really?- What are your strengths? T-CHART COMPARISONPAST TODAYdumb stupid bad ugly weird worthless nobody invisible mean PAST: - What names did people call you? - How did you see yourself?smart funny dependable amazing helpful kind valuable friendly loved
T-CHART COMPARISONIt is about pointing out the difference between fact and opinion.
T-CHART COMPARISONCULTIVATE HOPEp. 268
DOMAIN 5
DOMAIN 5
Using theClassroom180 Rubric
Using theClassroom180 Rubric
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