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From the EditorThe Vine and Branches:Family and CommunityGrace Notes: A Devotional forThe Christ-Centered WomanNews + This+ ThatWell-Being for the Christ-Centered WomanWe Need Each Other: The Art of Building a“Village” of FriendsHaving A Christ-Like HeartPracticing Patience in An Inpatient World3156517Seeds of Truth: SpiritualGrowth Through Sermon StudyThe Challenges of Christianity-TheChallenge of Trust (Matthew 6:27)-JustinRogersThat’s History! Exploring BibleHistoryGraceful Living: OrganizationTechnology Spotlight: PrayerAppsGreen Thumbs In BloomThe Hospitable HeartExploring Bible History: Who Was Baal?10 Quick Tips for A Fall ResetStudying the ScriptureUsing Prayer AppsWeeding Out the Old: A Gardener's Guideto Letting GoLessons We Can Learn From Jesus“Imitating Christ in Our Relationships”-Philippians 2:3-8Practicing “Simple” Hospitality7810122325Recipe CornerRecipes from various contributers284Ways to Connect21

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When we look at the meaning of this scripture, we must consider the importance of genuinely caringfor others more than ourselves, just as Christ did. His entire ministry was a lesson in how we shouldtreat one another.A perfect example of this is the parable of the prodigal son in Luke 15:11-32. In this story, the fatherrepresents God, and his actions embody the unconditional love and forgiveness that Christ has forus. When his younger son returned after squandering his inheritance, the father didn't wait for aformal apology. He saw his son while he was "still a great way off," ran to him, embraced him, andcelebrated his return.In our own relationships, we are supposed to be this kind of parent, spouse, or friend—one who isquick to forgive and eager to welcome others back with open arms. So, when you consider your ownrelationships, what are some ways you can imitate Christ?Three Ways to Imitate Christ in Your Relationships1. Practice Humility Christ's entire ministry was an act of humility. He left His throne in heaven andtook on human form to serve us. Imitating this means letting go of the need to be right, to get the lastword, or to receive credit. It's about being the first to apologize and the first to serve, even when it'sdifficult. Humility isn't thinking less of yourself; it's thinking of yourself less.2. Serve with Joy Jesus didn't just tell us to serve; He modeled it perfectly. In John 13, He washedHis disciples' feet, a job reserved for the lowest servant. This act was not a chore but a profounddemonstration of love. In your relationships, look for opportunities to serve without expectinganything in return. It might be listening to a friend without interrupting, doing something for yourspouse without being asked, or simply offering a word of encouragement. True service is a sign of aChrist-like heart.3. Extend Forgiveness Perhaps the most difficult, yet most freeing, way to imitate Christ is throughforgiveness. On the cross, Jesus didn't just forgive His followers; He asked the Father to forgive thevery people who were crucifying Him. When someone hurts us, our natural reaction is to hold agrudge. But Christ wants us to be different as Christians. He wants us to practice forgiveness. It isthrough true forgiveness that we are released from holding on to all consuming emotions likebitterness and anger.PrayerDear Heavenly Father,Thank you for the perfect example of love and humility found in Your Son, Jesus Christ. Teach me to serve withoutexpecting anything in return, to forgive others, and to love with a humble and selfless heart.In Jesus' Name, Amen.Scripture Focus: Philippians 2:3-4 “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but inlowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for hisown interests, but also for the interests of others.”Grace Notes: A Devotional for The Christ-Centered WomanHaving a Christ-Like HeartSeptember-October 2025

Seeds of Truth: Spiritual Growth Through Sermon Study“The challenge of trust is really thechallenge of self...”Brother Justin RogersThe Challenges of Christianity:The Challenge of TrustIn this sermon preached by Brother Justin Rogers, he highlights three areas thatinterfere with the ability to truly trust in God. You can listen to the audio of thesermon by scanning in the QR code or link at the bottom of the page.As you listen, feel free to use this page to follow along, fill in the blanks, and examinethe questions. September-October 20251. When we don’t trust in God and wedon’t trust in one another we willdevelop and inflated sense of_______________________________. in ourselves. Look to Proverbs 3: 5-82. We trust in people to advance our_________________________________________.Look to Jeremiah 7:5-63. We trust in our own intellectualabilities. Look to Proverbs 28:26; Matthew14:28Brother Rogers shares: “The challenge of trust is really thechallenge of self and surrendering selfin order to be filled with the power andpresence of Almighty God and until wedo that we will never come to know whatit means to trust in Him.”How do we learn to trust?We need to learn to be__________________________________________.Our modern world teaches it’s all aboutyou. The greatest idol you can worshipis the idol of you. To love is to be____________________________________________.When you pour yourself into otherpeople you give away part of your heart.. When we love we learn what it meansto surrender and trust. We serve a God who is:1. ____________________________________________2. _____________________________________________3. ______________________________________________4. _______________________________________________When we recognize it’s all about Him,He can:1. Save us2. Change us3. Empower usScan the above code to listen or go to this link:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/justin-rogers-the-challenges-of-christianity/id1820491643?i=1000722964343

That’s History! Exploring Bible HistoryExploring Bible History: Who Was Baal? Numbers 25:3“So Israel was joined to Baal of Peor, and the anger of the Lord wasaroused against Israel.”The BackstoryIf you listen to our podcast, TheChrist Centered Woman, you know wehave been discussing the book ofGenesis. In this chapter we learn ofthe Canaanites and their wickedness.When the Israelites moved into theland of Canaan, they met people whoworshipped different gods. The mostimportant god for these people wasBaal, which we see mentioned in theabove scripture from Numbers 25.The Canaanites believed that Baalwas in charge of rain, storms, and thecrops that grew from the ground.They thought they had to make himhappy to have a good harvest.To the Canaanites, worship was like adeal: "If we do this for you, you mustgive us what we want." This was verydifferent from the God of Israel, wholoved His people and had alreadysaved them from Egypt. He wanted arelationship of love and trust, not adeal.But the Israelites saw their neighborsand were tempted to copy them. TheBible says:"The Israelites did bad things that theLord did not like. They began toworship the Baals. They turned awayfrom the Lord, the God of theirancestors." (Judges 2:11-12, NKJV)The Test on the MountainThe worship of Baal was built on fear.The people would yell, dance wildly,and even cut themselves to get Baalto notice them and send rain. Theybelieved that the more effort they putin, the more likely he would help.This all came to a head when God'sprophet, Elijah, challenged theprophets of Baal to a contest onMount Carmel (1 Kings 18). They eachbuilt an altar for a sacrifice. Theprophets of Baal went first. All day,they shouted and begged their god tosend fire, but nothing happened.Then, Elijah prayed a simple, shortprayer to God. Right away, fire camedown from heaven. It burned up thesacrifice, the wood, the stones, andeven the water around the altar. Itwas a huge sign that God is real andpowerful. He doesn't need us toperform to get His attention.September-October 2025

That’s History! Exploring Bible HistoryExploring Bible History: Who Was Baal? (Continued) What Can We Learn?The Israelites were tempted by Baalbecause they wanted to control theirown lives and make sure they hadsuccess on their terms. They didn'twant to just trust in God alone.Today, we don't pray to statues ofBaal, but we can still be tempted toput other things first. Maybe we putour money, our jobs, or our popularitybefore God. We might believe that ifwe just work hard enough or getenough things, we will be happy andsafe. This is like our own modernversion of Baal worship.The story of Elijah on Mount Carmelteaches us a powerful lesson: truepeace and safety don't come fromwhat we can control or earn. Theycome from putting God first andtrusting in His love and power. We arefree when we stop trying to doeverything on our own and let God bein control.September-October 2025

10 Quick Tips for aFall ResetFall can often feel like a second chance at a New Year’sresolution. The weather cools, routines change, andthere’s a feeling of fresh energy. It’s the perfect time toget your home, your schedule, and your heart in order.By taking time to organize our lives, we can createspace for what truly matters and be better prepared toserve others. Here are 10 quick tips for a fall reset, andto help you have a more intentional living space:Declutter Your Schedule: Look atyour calendar and remove anycommitments that aren't servingyou or your family. This is theorganizational equivalent ofpruning a plant to help it growstronger.Establish a Morning Routine: Aconsistent morning routine can seta positive tone for your entire day.It can be as simple as spending 10minutes in quiet prayer or reading,just as Jesus often withdrew topray.Create a "Drop Zone": Place asmall basket or tray near your frontdoor for keys, mail, and othereveryday items. This simple stepprevents clutter from spreadingthroughout your home.Graceful Living: Organization September-October 2025Digitize Important Documents:Scan and save important paperslike school forms, receipts, ormedical records to a cloudservice. This makes them easyto find and frees up physicalspace.Clean Out Your Pantry: Thefall months are an excellenttime to get rid of old snacksand spices. A clean pantryallows you to see what youhave, helping you plan mealsand avoid waste—a great wayto be a good steward of yourresources.

10 Quick Tips for aSeptember Reset(Continued)Organize Your Closet: With thechange of seasons, go throughyour closet and set aside clothesyou no longer wear. Donate themto someone you know or to a localdonation center. Sharing withthose in need is a tangible way tolive out your faith.Do a Digital Detox: Take one day aweek to unplug. Turn off yournotifications and spend that timeconnecting with family, reading abook, or being in nature. This is anact of self-care that allows you tobe more present.Tackle the "Junk Drawer": Pickone drawer or cabinet that holdsmiscellaneous items andcompletely empty it. Sort througheverything, tossing what you don'tneed and organizing what you do.Plan Your Meal Prep: A littleplanning goes a long way. Spendan hour on Sunday planning mealsfor the week. This not only savesyou time and money but alsoreduces daily stress.Graceful Living: Organization September 2025Reflect and Set Intentions: Take 15minutes to reflect on the past seasonand set intentions for the monthsahead. What do you want to learn?How do you want to grow? A life livedwith intention is a life that can be usedto its fullest potential.As we get our homes in order this fall,remember doing these small,intentional acts are also a way oftending to our spiritual lives. Byweeding out what no longer serves usand creating space for what trulymatters, we can step into the newseason with a sense of peace andpurpose, ready for the growth that liesahead.

Redefining HospitalityPracticing “Simple”Hospitality| Page 22The Hospitable HeartIn a world that prizes productivity andpacked schedules, the idea of hospitalitycan feel like an extra burden. We envisionflawless dinner parties, sparkling-cleanhomes, and complex menus. So often wethink, "Who has the time for that?" But truehospitality has little to do with perfectionand everything to do with presence. Whenthe school year starts, and our days fill upwith classes, work, extracurriculars, andcommitments, genuine connection is oftenthe first thing to be sacrificed. However, byembracing simple hospitality, we can createmoments of deep connection that nourishus and those around us without addingstress to our already full lives.Our modern definition of hospitality is oftentied to entertaining. We feel we need toperform for our guests, showcasing apicture-perfect home and our culinary skills.Sadly, I have felt the pressure of this as well.The unrealistic expectation to have a“Pinterest” worthy spread can feel so real!Unfortunately having this mindset turns aloving act into a stressful chore, making iteasy to say, "I'll do it when I have more time."But hospitality, at its core, is about makingspace for people. It's the act of invitingsomeone into your life and saying, "Youmatter. You belong here."September-October 2025

Practical Tips for a Packed SchedulePracticing “Simple”Hospitality (Continued)| Page 22The Hospitable HeartThe most powerful hospitality isn't plannedweeks in advance; it's often spontaneousand imperfect. It's the neighbor you invite infor a cup of coffee you were alreadymaking. It's the friend you offer a seat atyour table for a takeout meal. These small,consistent acts are the building blocks ofauthentic community.This season let’s work to challenge the ideaof what it means to be hospitable. Forgetthe need for a spotless house or a fancymeal. Instead, focus on the heart of thematter: connection. One thing I havelearned is we live in a world where peoplecrave genuine relationships, not a perfectlystaged house.So, how do you actually practice hospitalitywhen your calendar is overflowing? The keyis to weave it into the fabric of your life, notto treat it as an isolated event.1. Let Go of the Perfection MythThis is the single biggest barrier topracticing hospitality. We worry about ourhomes, our cooking, our conversation skills.But remember, your guests are coming foryou, not for the state of your living room. Astudy from a major university found that themost memorable gatherings were thosewhere guests felt at ease and included, notthose that were flawlessly executed. September-October 2025Embrace the mess, the half-emptycontainers, and the laundry pile in thecorner. Tell your guests, "Welcome toreal life!" and give them the gift of anauthentic, pressure-free environment. Ionce had an elder’s wife tell me, “I won’tlook at your mess, if you don’t look atmine!” I always loved this quote. the mess

Practicing “Simple”Hospitality (Continued)| Page 22The Hospitable Heart2. Embrace the "Two-for-One" RuleLook for opportunities to double up onthings you're already doing. This is wheresimple hospitality shines.A Simple Meal: Instead of cooking a newrecipe for guests, simply make a doublebatch of what you were alreadyplanning to eat for dinner.Movie Night: Were you planning towatch a movie on Friday night? Invite afriend to join you with a bowl of popcornyou were already making.The Coffee Run: Going out to grab acoffee? Text a friend and ask if you canget them a drink, too. Or if you like tomake your own coffee drinks like we doin our house, this works too! 3. Schedule It Like a ClassIf you don't schedule it, it won't happen.Treat your time for connection as a fixedappointment. This doesn't mean planning aweekly dinner party, but it could be assimple as:A standing coffee date with a friendevery Tuesday morning.A bi-weekly board game night.A weekly Bible study session that rotatesbetween other women.By giving it a place in your calendar, you'resignaling to yourself that it's a priority.September-October 2025The Unexpected RewardsThe surprising thing about simplehospitality is how much it gives back to thehost. In a busy season of life, we can oftenfeel isolated and depleted. Opening ourhomes and lives to others can be a sourceof renewed energy and perspective. Whenwe make space for someone else, we arealso making space for ourselves to connectand be filled up.Hospitality teaches us to be less self-focused and more others-focused. Itreminds us that our resources, our time, ourspace, our energy—are not just for us, butare tools to bless others. It also provides anopportunity to receive. When you ask aguest to bring a dessert or help set thetable, you are allowing them to contributeand participate in the community you'rebuilding together.In the end, simple hospitality is a lost art ina chaotic world. It’s an invitation to pause,to be present, and to remember that themost valuable thing we have to offer isourselves.

We Need Each OtherWe Need Each OtherTHE ART OF BUILDING A"VILLAGE" OF FRIENDSWe all know the old saying, "It takes a villageto raise a child." But what we often forget isthat it also takes a village to sustain an adult.In a world that can feel more disconnectedthan ever, the friends who make up our"village" are a vital source of support, joy, andspiritual growth.But how do you build this village? It can feel alittle like a daunting task, especially with busyschedules and competing priorities. It startswith a simple shift in mindset: from a consumerto a creator of it. Instead of waiting forsomeone to invite you in, you become the onewho reaches out and cultivates connection.How to Build Your VillageStart with the Small, IntentionalSteps. Building a village doesn'trequire a grand plan. It's often builtone cup of coffee or one textmessage at a time. It's the simple actof saying yes to an invitation, orbetter yet, extending one yourself.Reach out to that person you’ve beenmeaning to connect with. Inviteanother family over for a casualdinner. These small, intentional stepsare the foundation of buildingcommunity.The Vine and Branches: Family and CommunitySeptember-October 2025

Remember That Your Village WillEvolve. The people who make upyour village may change over time,and that’s okay. As you move throughdifferent seasons of life your needsand friendships will evolve. The key isto keep an open heart and awillingness to adapt. The mostresilient villages are the ones thatcan grow and change with you.In the end, our village is not abouthaving a perfect network of friends.It's about having people who remindyou that you're not on this journeyalone—people who will cheer for you,pray for you, and sit with you in thehard moments. By taking small,intentional steps to create andnurture these relationships, we canfind true belonging and build acommunity that lasts.The Vine and Branches: Family and Community (Continued)September-October 2025Embrace Vulnerability. Real connection begins when we letgo of the idea that we have to have itall together. Being vulnerable meanssharing a struggle, admitting you needhelp, or simply being honest abouthow you're feeling. When we open upand share our authentic selves, wegive others permission to do thesame, creating a safe space forgenuine friendship to flourish. It alsomakes it easier for others to help, andaccepting help is a crucial part ofbuilding strong connections.Show Up for Others. A village is a give-and-takerelationship. While it's important toreceive support, it's just as importantto offer it. Look for opportunities toserve those around you. Can youbring a meal to a friend who just hada baby? Can you offer to watch aneighbor's kids so they can have amuch-needed date night? By showingup consistently for the people in yourlife, you are not only blessing thembut also strengthening the bonds thathold your community together.

PracticingPatienceIn An Impatient WorldWell-BeingSeptember-October 2025

PRACTICING PATIENCE IN AN IMPATIENTWORLD (CONTINUED)September-October 2025An Example of Perfect PatienceConsider Jesus's relationship with Hisapostles. He chose twelve men—imperfect, flawed, and often slow tounderstand. Time and again, theymissed the point, misunderstood Histeachings, or acted impulsively. Forinstance, after Jesus fed the fivethousand, the disciples still worriedabout not having enough food(Matthew 16:9-10). And when theywere in a boat during a storm, theybecame fearful, and they panickedwhile Jesus calmly slept (Mark 4:38-40). Yet, Jesus never scolded them orgave up on them. His response wasone of gentle, patient instruction. Thisis the same perfect patience Heextends to us, as Paul reminds us in 1Timothy 1:16, stating, "But I receivedmercy for this reason, that in me, asthe foremost, Jesus Christ mightdisplay his perfect patience as anexample to those who were tobelieve in him for eternal life."The good news is that we have aperfect example of patience to follow:Jesus Christ. When I think about Hislife, I see patience lived out in everymoment. He demonstrated this notjust in times of great suffering, but inthe quiet, day-to-day moments.When we look at His relationships,we see patience in action.The Mental Health ConnectionWhile patience is a spiritual virtue, italso has a profound impact on ourmental and emotional health.Research from psychological studiesconfirms that impatience is asignificant contributor to stress,anxiety, and even depression. Astudy published in Patience andMental Health in Iranian Studentsfound that patience is a uniquepredictor of mental well-being, witha close connection to lower levels ofanxiety and depression. People whopractice patience tend to experiencefewer negative emotions and higherlevels of life satisfaction.When we constantly feel the need torush, our minds are in a perpetualstate of "fight or flight." Our bodiesrelease stress hormones, adrenalineand cortisol, and our thoughtsbecome frantic. This constant stateof low-grade stress can lead tophysical and psychological burnout.When we are able to practicepatience, we interrupt this cycle,calming our minds and giving ourbodies a chance to rest. We movefrom a state of frustration to one ofcalm acceptance.Well-Being

September-October 2025Patience in ActionThe Bible uses the term"longsuffering," which is apowerful word. The Greek wordbehind it, makrothymia, impliesthe ability to endure hardship orthe offenses of others withoutretaliating. When we feelimpatience welling up inside, it’s amoment to remember thatpatience is not just a passivefeeling but a deliberate, Biblicalpractice. The Holy Spirit providedthe Word, but we are responsiblefor learning, accepting, andpracticing the things found in theBible. So, when you feel temptedto rush or lash out, lean on thistruth: patience is a quality that youcan achieve with practice. Youhave been given a model in Christand a guideline in God's Word.Three Ways to Grow in PatienceSo how can we, as Christ-centeredwomen, begin to grow in this virtue inour own lives? It's not about becoming apassive bystander, but an activeparticipant in our own spiritual andemotional growth.Identify Your Triggers. The first step isself-awareness. What situationsconsistently make you feel impatient? Isit traffic? A cluttered house? The slowWi-Fi? By recognizing these triggers,you can prepare yourself to respondwith a calm spirit rather than afrustrated reaction. For example, if youknow you'll be stuck in traffic, use thattime to listen to an uplifting podcast oran audio book. Reframe Your Perspective. Insteadof seeing a delay as a frustratingobstacle, try to see it as anopportunity. A long line at thecheckout can be a chance to prayfor the person in front of you. Aslow-to-understand coworker orchild can be an opportunity topractice compassion and gentleinstruction, just as Christ did withHis apostles.Practice Mindfulness and SlowingDown. In a world that glorifiesbusyness, intentionally slowing down issomething we all need to remember todo. Practice mindfulness by focusing ona single task, like drinking a cup of teawithout distraction or taking a walkwithout your phone. This helps trainyour mind to be present in the moment,rather than rushing to the next thing.PRACTICING PATIENCE IN AN IMPATIENTWORLD (CONTINUED)Well-Being

Spetember-October 2025As we conclude our lesson today onpatience I want to leave you with ascripture for reflection: Disclaimer: This article is for informationalpurposes only and should not be considered asubstitute for professional medical or mentalhealth advice.Jessica Hamm is a wife and mother to twodaughters and resides in Red Boiling Springs,Tennessee. She is a PhD licensed therapist,runs a private mental health practice, andteaches as an adjunct professor in counseling.PRACTICING PATIENCE IN AN IMPATIENTWORLD (CONTINUED)"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,peace, longsuffering, gentleness,goodness, faith, meekness,temperance: against such there is nolaw." (Galatians 5:22-23)How can you work to make thesefruits of the spirit, specifically,patience, something you practicedaily? ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________Can others look at you and see youpractice these characteristics on acontinuous basis? If so, how do youshow these to others? ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________Questions to Ask Yourself: Well-Being

In our constantly connected world, it'sno surprise that technology has foundits way into our prayer lives. Prayerapps have emerged as a popular tool,offering everything from dailydevotionals and guided prayers todigital prayer journals and community-building features. But what are thebenefits of these tools, what are thepotential challenges, and which appsare worth using?The Benefits of Prayer AppsFor many, prayer apps are a great help.They can assist with establishing andmaintaining a consistent habit ofprayer. With daily reminders, it can beeasier to carve out a few minutes forquiet reflection, even on the busiest ofdays. Apps can also help overcomefeelings of inadequacy by encouragingregular prayers, as well as makingprayer more routine.There are some prayer apps that allowusers to share prayer requests withfriends, family, or a wider community,creating a supportive network. Thisfeature is particularly helpful for thosewho feel isolated or unable to see eachother due to distance.TECHNOLOGYSPOTLIGHT: USINGPRAYER APPS

The Challenges and PitfallsWhile prayer apps can be a powerfultool, they are not without theirchallenges. The biggest risk is thatthey can turn prayer from a heartfeltconversation with God into a passive,"check-the-box" activity. It's easy toget so caught up in the app'sfeatures and notifications that youforget the deeper purpose of prayer:to connect with a living God.Another challenge is the potential fordistraction. Notifications from otherapps, social media, or emails canpull you away from your prayer time.A prayer app's features themselves—from tracking streaks to earningbadges—can sometimes shift thefocus from a relationship with God toa game-like pursuit of a digital goal.The danger lies in prioritizing theperformance of prayer over thepresence of God.Apps to ExploreIf you are looking to try a prayer app,here are two popular options thatoffer different features:Prayminder: I personally use thisapp. It gives you gentle prayerreminders based on a scheduleyou set. It helps me have a moreactive prayer life.Echo Prayer: I know several thatuse this app. It has a simpleinterface that allows you tomanage lists, set reminders forspecific requests, and share themprivately with others.Prayer apps are tools, and like anytool, they should be used withwisdom and discretion. They can bea wonderful resource for helping usbecome more consistent andfocused, in our prayer lives. However,we must ensure they lead us closerto God, not just to our phone screens.

As the summer sun begins to softenand the days grow shorter, there's aunique kind of quiet in the garden.This is a season not just for gatheringthe last of our produce, but for one ofthe most important tasks of all:weeding. It's a job that might not beas glamorous as planting or asexciting as harvesting, but it'sessential. Just as weeds can choke thelife out of a garden, so too can oldhurts, resentments, and negativehabits strangle the life from ourrelationships.This fall as we start our outdoorweeding process, let’s look at ourrelationships with the eyes of agardener. Let’s identify the inner"weeds" we've let grow—thebitterness, the impatience, theunforgiveness—and learn to pullthem out by the root, making roomfor true, Christ-like love to flourish.The Parable of the WeedA weed's power isn't in its size, but inits root. A seemingly small,insignificant weed can have a deepand sprawling root system that stealsnutrients and water from the healthyplants around it. In the same way, asmall disagreement we refuse to letgo of, a harsh word we hold onto, or afeeling of pride can grow into a rootof bitterness that poisons ourconnection with another person.Imitating Christ means not just lovingothers but actively working toremove the things that prevent usfrom loving them fully.WEEDING OUT THE OLD: A GARDENER'S GUIDE TOLETTING GOHere are five gardening tips for“weeding” outdoors and insideour hearts that can guide us inthis process.Get to the Root: The mosteffective weeding tool is oftenyour own two hands. You have toget down low and pull the weedfrom its base to make sure youget the entire root. The same istrue with relational weeds. Youcan't just trim the surface issue;you have to get to the root of theproblem. What is the true sourceof your frustration with a familymember? What’s the real reasonyou’re avoiding a difficultconversation with a friend?Identify the root cause—be itpride, fear, or a past hurt—andprayerfully work to pull it outcompletely.Pull Weeds When the Ground isSoft: It's much easier to pullweeds after a good rain when thesoil is soft and pliable. Likewise,it's easier to address a relationalconflict when your heart is soft.Don't wait until you're in a heatedargument or feeling defensive totry and fix something. Instead,take a quiet moment after a goodconversation, or after a time ofreflection, to gently address alingering issue. A soft heart makesfor an easier process.September-October 2025Green Thumbs in Bloom

Use a Mulch of Grace: Afteryou've cleared a section of weedsin your garden, a layer of mulchhelps keep new weeds fromgrowing back. In ourrelationships, grace is our mulch.After you've had a difficultconversation or worked through ahurt, you need to layer grace overthe situation. This means notbringing it up again, choosing toforgive fully, and consciouslyworking to protect that part ofyour relationship from new"weeds" of bitterness orjudgment.Identify the Unseen Weeds:Sometimes, the most damagingweeds are the ones you can’t see.Creeping weeds with longrunners can be hidden under thehealthy plants, silently takingover. Our attitudes can be likethis, too. We might not openlyexpress our frustrations, butsilent judgments or a critical spiritcan silently erode ourrelationships. This fall, take timefor honest self-reflection. Pray forinsight about any unseen "weeds"in your heart—the ones you mightbe ignoring or hiding from others.WEEDING OUT THE OLD: A GARDENER'S GUIDE TOLETTING GOEnjoy a Weed-Free Space: Onceyou’ve done the hard work ofweeding, take a moment toappreciate the clean, healthy spaceyou've created. When you'veremoved bitterness and old hurtsfrom a relationship, you can enjoy anewfound peace and freedom. Thelove and respect that were there allalong have room to breathe andgrow. The work is hard, but thereward is a beautiful, flourishingrelationship.September-October 2025Green Thumbs in Bloom (Continued)

Lessons We Can Learn FromJesus“Imitating Christ In OurRelationships” Studying the Scripture: Philippians 2:3-8 Studying the ScriptureSeptember-October 2025

Studying Philippians 2:3-8In a society that often celebrates self-promotionand ambition, the call to imitate Christ's humilityand servanthood can go against the norm. Yet, it isat the very core of what it means to be a follower ofJesus. True, lasting joy in our relationships isn’tfound in being right or being in control, but inembracing the selfless love that Christdemonstrated for us. This study will help us betterunderstand what it means to have Christ-likehumility and apply it to our own self andrelationships.This Biblical account starts with a passage from theapostle Paul, who calls us to adopt the mindset ofChrist Himself. The following verses from the bookof Philippians lay the groundwork for everything wewill explore in this study.Philippians 2:3-8 (NKJV) "Let nothing be donethrough selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowlinessof mind let each esteem others better than himself.Let each of you look out not only for his owninterests, but also for the interests of others. Letthis mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus,who, being in the form of God, did not consider itrobbery to be equal with God, but made Himself ofno reputation, taking the form of a bondservant,and coming in the likeness of men. And being foundin appearance as a man, He humbled Himself andbecame obedient to the point of death, even thedeath of the cross."Breaking Down the Verse"Let nothing be done through selfish ambitionor conceit." This is a powerful command. It asksus to examine our motives. Are we acting forour own glory, or for the good of others? Vainconceit is the belief that we are better than weare, while selfish ambition is our desire to riseabove others. These two things are the ultimateenemies of humility."In lowliness of mind let each esteem othersbetter than himself." This isn't about pretendingto be worthless; it's about seeing value anddignity in every person, so much so that youprioritize their well-being. It is a mindset thatfrees us from constant self-comparison andcompetition."Let each of you look out not only for his owninterests, but also for the interests of others."This is where humility becomes active. It's notenough to simply think of others as valuable;we are to act in their best interests. Thisrequires listening, empathy, and a willingness toput our own desires on hold for a moment.Studying the ScriptureSeptember-October 2025

Studying Philippians 2:3-8Jesus didn't just teach about humility; He lived it outperfectly. In fact, He directly challenged thecommon understanding of power and greatnessamong His disciples, turning the world's wisdomupside down.Mark 10:42-45 (NKJV) "But Jesus called them toHimself and said to them, “You know that thosewho are considered rulers over the Gentiles lord itover them, and their great ones exercise authorityover them. Yet it shall not be so among you; butwhoever desires to become great among you shallbe your servant. And whoever of you desires to befirst shall be a slave of all. For even the Son of Mandid not come to be served, but to serve, and to giveHis life a ransom for many.”Jesus saw the ambition in the hearts of His disciplesand used it to redefine what true greatness is. Hedidn't tell them to stop wanting to be great; He toldthem that the path to greatness is through service.His life was the perfection of this truth—He cameas the Son of God, yet He chose to live and die as aservant.Study and Reflection1.What are some common forms of “vain conceit”or “selfish ambition” that you notice in yourown life or relationships? How do these actionsinterfere with true connection?1.Jesus said that "whoever of you desires to befirst shall be a slave of all." How can you applythe meaning of this statement to your dailylife?Think about the relationships in your life(spouse, child, friend, coworker). In what waysmight you be able to "esteem others betterthan yourself" this week? Be specific.What is one small act of servanthood you cancommit to doing this week that might be ablessing to someone else?Humility and servanthood aren't just abstract ideas—they are daily choices. Here are some simple,practical ways to put them into action.At Home:Initiate a conversation by asking, "How can Ihelp you?"Do a chore that you normally wouldn't dowithout being asked.Listen to your spouse or children withoutinterrupting, and validate their feelings beforeoffering your own perspective.With Friends:Celebrate their successes with genuineenthusiasm, without comparing them to yourown.Offer to help them with a task, even a difficultone, without expecting anything in return.Actively listen and offer encouragement, ratherthan trying to give advice.At Work:Volunteer for a task that isn't glamorous butneeds to be done.Give credit to a coworker when they have agood idea.Be the person who asks, "How can I make yourjob easier?"Studying the ScriptureSeptember-October 2025

WE ARE DEEPLY GRATEFUL TO THOSEWHO GENEROUSLY SHARED THEIRRECIPES. MAY THESE RECIPES BRING JOYAND BLESSINGS TO MANY! THIS ISSUE WE ARE FOCUSING ON QUICKRECIPES TO HELP US WITH OURHOSPITALITY! WE FEATURE RECIPES FROM THEKITCHENS OF:LISA TATUMAMBER PUCKETT

BAKED FRENCH TOASTINGREDIENTS:1 (1 POUND) LOAF FRENCH BREAD, CUT DIAGONALLY ININCH SLICES8 EGGS2 CUPS MILK1-1/2 CUPS HALF AND HALF2 TEASPOONS VANILLA EXTRACT¼ TEASPOON GROUND CINNAMONFOR SAUCE:¾ CUP BUTTER1-1/3 CUPS BROWN SUGAR3 TABLESPOONS LIGHT CORN SYRUPRecipe contributed by Lisa Tatum. Lisa is awife, mother, and grandmother fromHohenwald, TN. She enjoys decorating andcooking for her friends and family.

Recipe contributed by Amber Puckett of Coldwater, KY.Amber is a wife, mother, preacher’s wife, and businessowner of , All Lasered Up. She enjoys hosting others andhelping in her church.

Recipe contributed by Lisa Tatum. Lisa is awife, mother, and grandmother fromHohenwald, TN. She enjoys decorating andcooking for her friends and family.

Recipe contributed by Lisa Tatum. Lisa is awife, mother, and grandmother fromHohenwald, TN. She enjoys decorating andcooking for her friends and family.

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