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It can be difficult to know what to do, how tointervene, or where to direct someone to gethelp when it comes to domestic violence, sexualassault, and or sex trafficking. I have puttogether this resource guide for advocates, allies,family members, and friends of survivors withthe hopes that this will provide guidance andeducation on how to help. Inside this guide, youwill find links to educational information alongwith shelters and organizations that can assist.National organizations and DMV area-specificlocations are included.
EducationThe National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence(NCDSV) offers training for organizations and individuals onthe subject matter. http://www.ncdsv.org/ncd_training.htmlUjima, The National Center on Violence Against Women in theBlack Community focuses on education and resources forblack women survivors of domestic violence.https://ujimacommunity.org/education-and-outreach/Call Us : 1-844-77-UJIMANational Resource Center on Domestic Violence (NRCDV)’sTraining Institute provides development opportunities thatenhance knowledge, develop skills, and enrich participants.https://www.nrcdv.org/trainingsStrong Hearts Native Helpline offers resources for Indigenouswomen who are survivors of abuse, and educates society on theunique barriers that indigenous persons face regardingdomestic violence. https://strongheartshelpline.org/get-help/help-a-friend-or-relativeStrong Hearts Native Helpline 1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483) is asafe, anonymous, and confidential domestic violence anddating violence helpline for Native Americans and AlaskaNatives, offering culturally-appropriate support and advocacyDOMESTIC VIOLENCEW h a t s h o u l d I k n o w , w h a t c a n I d o ?
DOMESTIC VIOLENCEW h a t s h o u l d I k n o w , w h a t c a n I d o ? Red FlagsThe National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) has puttogether a comprehensive list of warning signs that some may be beingabused. This in-depth explanation could help you see the red flags abouta loved one that may be in danger.https://ncadv.org/signs-of-abuse
Where to turn for helpTo talk with a victim assistance specialist, contact DC Victim Services24-Hour Hotline at 1-844-443-5732. In Washington, DC, immigrantvictims of domestic violence have a right to receive help regardless ofimmigration status.The DC Coalition Against Domestic Violence (DCCADV) is afederally-recognized statewide coalition of domestic violenceprograms, organizations, and individuals organized to ensure theelimination of domestic violence in the District of Columbia.https://dccadv.org/about/YWCA is creating a safer, more just world, by offering emergency,transitional, and long-term housing, crisis hotlines, medical and legaladvocacy, and other services to survivors of domestic and sexualviolence so survivors can regain stability as they rebuild their lives.https://www.ywca.org/what-we-do/domestic-and-sexual-violence-services/ Phone: (202) 467-0801Domestic Violence Resource Project (DVRP) provides free andconfidential services, in over 20 Asian/Pacific Islander languages. Weaim to improve the safety of survivors of domestic violence and sexualassault, regardless of income level, immigration status, or Englishfluency.https://dvrp.org/survivor-services-program/Hotline: 202.833.2233DOMESTIC VIOLENCEW h a t s h o u l d I k n o w , w h a t c a n I d o ?
Where to turn for help cont. The Women’s Center offers counseling with professional therapistsand advocates, who have experience supporting survivors of domesticviolence and sexual assault. Services are available at the Virginia andDC locations.https://thewomenscenter.org/domestic-violence-sexual-assault-services/To reach an advocate (703) 281-2657 #276 or (571) 536-5160To reach a counselor (703) 281-4928- Virginia, (202) 293-4580 #100- DCDAWN provides crisis intervention services for Deaf, Hard of Hearing,and DeafBlind survivors of domestic violence, sexual abuse, andstalking.https://deafdawn.org/Main Phone: (202) 559-5366My Sister’s Place (MSP) offers a full continuum of care fromemergency shelter through transitional-to-permanent housing. Ourexperienced team of case managers and residential counselorsprovides clinical counseling, case management, and comprehensiveservices to empower survivors to recover and thrive.https://mysistersplacedc.org/programs-and-services/Sister’s Place’s specific programs and services, you can contact us 24hours a day at 202-540-1064.DOMESTIC VIOLENCEW h a t s h o u l d I k n o w , w h a t c a n I d o ?
Where to turn for help cont.House of Ruth offers comprehensive services and housing forwomen and children. Our services range from supportivehousing for families and single women in crisis, to atherapeutic, developmental daycare for homeless children, andfree counseling services to anyone who has been a victim ofdomestic violence.https://houseofruth.org/our-programs/the-houses-of-ruth/To get help, call our intake line at 202-667-7001 ext. 320 Bethany House offers crisis intervention, short-term housingfor survivors and their children, and trauma recovery. Once asurvivor physically leaves Bethany House, you will not beforgotten. We help prevent abuse in the future with a system ofsupport. Opt-in program for up to 2 years that is designed toprevent relapse into abuse via ongoing counseling, pantryitems support, and special events.https://www.bhnv.org/If you are interested in receiving Bethany House services,please call 703-658-9500G Tactics Protection offers self-defense training, witness orcourt escort services, background investigations, and muchmore.https://www.gtacticsprotection.com/servicesgerren@gtacticsprotection.comDOMESTIC VIOLENCEW h a t s h o u l d I k n o w , w h a t c a n I d o ?
Where to turn for help cont.The Wanda Alston Foundation is dedicated to ensuring that LGBTQyouth experiencing homelessness have access to services that improvetheir overall quality of life. For help, please contact atcounselingcenter@wandaalstonfoundation.org or call (202) 465-8794, theoffice is open 9-5 Monday through Friday.The Well is a community of women being transformed through long-term relationships, practical programs, and the healing power of love.Programs and resources such as life mentorship pairings, workforcedevelopment, job placement, drop in assistance, a community closet andfamily programming are all available at The Well. 4710 Pennington AveCurtis Bay, MD 21226(410) 589-6670 https://www.drinkatthewell.org/info@drinkatthewell.orgHours Monday 12:00 - 4:00pm Wednesday 10:00am - 4:00pmThursday 12:00 - 4:00pm Pack’D Project’s mission is to arm victims with a backpack of tangibleresources to expedite their leaving process from abuse. Backpacks arecomprised of elements from four categories: a guidebook, hospitality kit,wallet and cellphone. https://www.pakdproject.org/contactpakdproject21@gmail.com(703) 420-5191DOMESTIC VIOLENCEW h a t s h o u l d I k n o w , w h a t c a n I d o ?
EducationRAINN explains the various types of sexual violence, the effects ofsexual violence, and statues of limitations and how it differently affectseach state.Statutes of limitations... District of Columbia: 11-20 years Virginia: None for felony sex crimes, A statute of limitations of 21 years or more Maryland None for felony sex crimes, A statute of limitations of 21 years or more For more information and a full explanation of statute of limitations,visit the website listed belowhttps://www.rainn.org/about-sexual-assaultThe Women’s Resource Center (WRC) gives information regardingstatistics about how many people are affected by sexual assault.Explains steps one should take if they have been sexually assaulted,such as a SANE exam, and goes over in detail what a SANE exam is.https://www.womensresourcecenter.org/services/rape-and-sexual-assault/Weekly sexual assault support group referrals, call 231-941-1210/1-800-554-4972 for time and location.To get help or inquire about emergency shelter call 1-800-554-4972SEXUAL ASSUALTC o n s e n t i s k e y , b y s t a n d e r i n t e r v e n t i o n h e l p s .
Consent is sexy. Consent is key. Consent is MANDATORY.The National Sexual Violence Resource Center has created aconsent quiz to test how much one knows and understandsabout consent. https://www.nsvrc.org/saam/consent-quizThere are social and legal components to defining andunderstanding consent. RAINN goes into depth with a fullexplanation herehttps://www.rainn.org/articles/what-is-consentSEXUAL ASSUALTC o n s e n t i s k e y , b y s t a n d e r i n t e r v e n t i o n h e l p s .
ResourcesThe National Sexual Assault Hotline is available 24/7 foranonymous, confidential support.1-800-656-HOPE (4673)The District Alliance for Safe Housing (DASH) offers acontinuum of low-barrier safe housing and holistic services forall domestic violence and sexual assault survivors includingwomen, men, LGBTQIA+ survivors, immigrant survivors andelderly survivors. https://www.dashdc.org/programs-services/safe-housing/To learn more about DASH’s safe housing programs andservices, please contact our Housing Resource Center at 202-290-2356 ext. 101.YWCA is creating a safer, more just world, by offeringemergency, transitional, and long-term housing, crisishotlines, medical and legal advocacy, and other services tosurvivors of domestic and sexual violence so survivors canregain stability as they rebuild their lives.https://www.ywca.org/what-we-do/domestic-and-sexual-violence-services/ Phone: (202) 467-0801SEXUAL ASSUALTC o n s e n t i s k e y , b y s t a n d e r i n t e r v e n t i o n h e l p s .
Resources Cont.The Women’s Center offers counseling with professionaltherapists and advocates, who have experience supportingsurvivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. Services areavailable at the Virginia and DC locations.https://thewomenscenter.org/domestic-violence-sexual-assault-services/To reach an advocate (703) 281-2657 #276 or (571) 536-5160To reach a counselor (703) 281-4928- Virginia, (202) 293-4580#100- DCDAWN provides crisis intervention services for Deaf, Hard ofHearing, and DeafBlind survivors of domestic violence, sexualabuse, and stalking.https://deafdawn.org/Main Phone: (202) 559-5366SEXUAL ASSUALTC o n s e n t i s k e y , b y s t a n d e r i n t e r v e n t i o n h e l p s .
EducationShared Hope International goes into depth explainingexactly what sex trafficking entails and explains nationwidestatistics on the prevalence. https://sharedhope.org/the-problem/what-is-sex-trafficking/Shared Hope International compiled a list of terminologythat is frequently used in the world of sex trafficking.Understanding this lingo can help you be more aware ofpossible conversations taking place discussing sex traffickingacts. https://sharedhope.org/the-problem/trafficking-terms/SEX TRAFFICKINGC O E R C I O N , F O R C E , A N D M A N I P U L A T I O N I S N O T P R O S T I T U T I O N .
Understanding how this disproportionately affectsIndigenous womenNational Indigenous Women’s Resource Center has created awebinar series on trauma informed approaches for supporting domestictrafficking survivors. https://www.niwrc.org/resources/webinars/trauma-informed-approaches-supporting-domestic-trafficking-survivorsSpeaking Our Truth, Podcast for Change is an original podcast aimedat building joint action by the National Indigenous Women's ResourceCenter.https://www.niwrc.org/podcastResources Fair Girls is an organization focused on helping survivors escapeexploitation through emergency outreach, court advocacy, andsupportive counselinghttps://fairgirls.org/24/7 Crisis Referral Line at 1(855) 900 3247.SEX TRAFFICKINGC O E R C I O N , F O R C E , A N D M A N I P U L A T I O N I S N O T P R O S T I T U T I O N .
Shae Lambert...She is an advocate for and ally of domesticviolence, sexual assault, and sex traffickingsurvivors, and has been actively involved inhelping these communities across the country.Shae currently volunteers at Bethany House ofNorthern Virginia and works as a DomesticViolence Liaison for the Metropolitan PoliceDepartment in Ward 6 and 7 in the District ofColumbia. She previously Served on the YoungProfessionals Board at Cornerstone Women’sshelter in Bloomington, MN, where she was notonly a board member, but a weekly volunteer,and advocate. In New York, Shae helpedfacilitate sexual assault bystander interventiontraining with the New York City Allianceagainst Sexual Assault on her college campus. About the AuthorHer recent research included usingintersectionality and feminist theory toresearch how domestic violence affects blackwomen and their mental health, and theprevalence of sex trafficking foster carechildren within the United States. She willuse her education and work experience tocreate legislation to bridge the gap betweena survivor’s needs and the road to recovery.She is currently the Senior Policy Analyst forVulnerable Populations at a non profitorganization in Wasington, DC focusing onlegislation pertaining to DV, SA, ST, veterans,aging persons, and substance use disorder. Within pageantry she uses her platform toeducate her community about these topics,provide insight on ways to help, and activelyvolunteers to help various women’s centersand organizations across the DMV to meetthe current and future needs of survivors. She received her B.A. in History fromMinnesota State University Mankato inHistory, where her senior thesis was onFemicide in Juarez, Mexico. She continuedon this educational path and is a class of2020 graduate from the Long IslandUniversity Master of Public AdministrationProgram. Her areas of research includedthe prevalence of sexual assault oncollege campuses, and thedisproportionate targeting and sextrafficking of Indigenous women in theMidwest. Shae recently graduated fromher second Master’s program at VirginiaCommonwealth University with a Master'scertification in Gender ViolenceIntervention.
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