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GENERAL PRICE LISTThe Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.PSALM 34:18(919) 688-1323 INFO@ELLISDJONES.COM419 DOWD ST. DURHAM, NC 27701THESE PRICES ARE EFFECTIVE AS OF FEB. 1, 2024 AND ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE WITHOUT NOTICE

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PAYMENT POLICIESR e v e l a t i o n 2 1 : 4 H e w i l l w i p e a w a y e v e r y t e a r f r o m t h e i r e y e s , a n d d e a t h s h a l l b e n o m o r e ,n e i t h e r s h a l l t h e r e b e m o u r n i n g , n o r c r y i n g , n o r p a i n a n y m o r e , f o r t h e f o r m e r t h i n g s h a v ep a s s e d a w a y .Ellis D. Jones & Sons’ prices are itemized showing a cost for all services and merchandise provided. These costs are divided intothree categories:1. Professional Services (services of staff, embalming, use of facilities, and automotive equipment).2. Cost of Merchandise (caskets, vaults, urns, suits, gowns, and programs).3. Cash Advances (cemetery, grave digging, flowers, and death certificates). Cash Advances are items that we, the funeral home,have no control over. These funds are paid to a third party on your behalf. These charges are due at the time of thearrangements. FUNERAL PAYMENT OPTIONS 1. EARLY PAYMENT DISCOUNT: is available for cash or cashier check payment in full if paid on or before the day of theservice. -A 2% CASH DISCOUNT will be given on the merchandise and professional services selected. 2. INSURANCE ASSIGNMENT: is accepted on one or more valid life insurance policies to be assigned to Ellis D. Jones & SonsFuneral Directors, for full or partial payment of funeral expenses. The policy must be provided to us, and the insurancecompany must verify the face value of the policy.-5% INSURANCE PROCESSING FEE. (Minimum $100) On Cash Advance Items funded. 3. VISA-MASTERCARD-AMERICAN EXPRESS: is accepted for full or partial payment of the funeral home’s professionalservice charges only. -2.5% SERVICE FEE is applicable. 4. PRE-NEED FUNERAL CONTRACT: is accepted for all pre-need contracts, bank or insurance fund. 5. CASH ADVANCE MONEY: is available on qualified insurance policies. 95% of the value of the policy can be paid to youwithin 24 hours after approval. The money can be used for cash advances expenses or professional services.6. GO FUND ME ACCOUNTS: Are the sole responsibility of the family and are not accepted as payment. Regardless of the payment option chosen, a final statement of funeral goods and services will be provided to the purchaser. Boththe family and Ellis D Jones & Sons Funeral Directors must mutually agree upon financial responsibility. PaymentArrangements must be confirmed before services will be set. Please feel free to ask any questions you might have about ourservices, merchandise, and financial options.

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BASIC SERVICES, EMBALMING& OTHER PREPERATIN OF THE BODYR o m a n s 8 : 2 8 - A n d w e k n o w t h a t f o r t h o s e w h o l o v e G o d a l l t h i n g s w o r k t o g e t h e r f o r g o o d ,f o r t h o s e w h o a r e c a l l e d a c c o r d i n g t o h i s p u r p o s e . The goods and services shown below are those we can provide to our customers. You may choose only the items you desire.However, any funeral arrangements you select will include a change for our basic services and overhead. If legal or otherrequirements mean you must buy any items you did not specifically ask for, we will explain the reason in writing on thestatement we provide describing the funeral goods and services you selected.BASIC SERVICESOF FUNERAL DIRECTOR AND STAFF…………………..............................………………………$1995Our fee for the services of funeral director and staff includes, but is not limited to, staff to respond to initial request for service;arrangement conference with family or responsible party; arrangement of funeral; preparation and filing of necessaryauthorizations and permits; recording vital statistics; preparation and placement of obituary notices; staff assistance prior to,during and following the funeral, including coordination with those providing other portions of the funeral, e.g. cemetery, andothers. Also included in these charges are overhead expenses relative to our facility such as insurance, maintenance and utilityexpenses, secretarial and administrative costs, and equipment and inventory costs.This fee for our basic services and overhead will be added to the total cost of the funeral arrangements you select. (This fee isalready included in our charges for direct cremations, immediate burials, and forwarding or receiving remains.)EMBALMING……………………………………………………………………......................…………………………………$895Embalming is not required by law. Embalming may be necessary, however, if you select certain funeral arrangements, such as afuneral with viewing. If you do not want embalming, you usually have the right to choose an arrangement, such as directcremation or immediate burial, that does not require you to pay for it.OTHER PREPARATION OF THE BODYIncludes cosmetology, hairdressing, dressing and casketing.................................................................................................. $425 *Dressing & Casketing (Decedent over 28” W or 250+ lbs.) ………........................................................…………..….$525Preparation of un-embalmed remains....................................................................................................................................$400Professional Stylist.............................................................................................................................................................. $150 Storage of un-embalmed remains after 24 hours............................................................................................................... $50/day

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SERVICES & TRANSPORTATIOND e u t e r o n o m y 3 1 : 8 I t i s t h e L o r d w h o g o e s b e f o r e y o u . H e w i l l b e w i t h y o u ; h e w i l l n o t l e a v ey o u o r f o r s a k e y o u . D o n o t f e a r o r b e d i s m a y e d .USE OF FACILITIES & STAFF FOR VIEWING/VISITATION............................................................................................... $475Our services include set-up of visitation area, placement of encased remains, display of floral arrangements, supervision of andattendance during the visitation Monday through Friday. USE OF EQUIPMENT, STAFF, & FACILITY FOR WEEKDAY FUNERAL & MEMORIAL SERVICE.............................. $750Our services include coordinating the memorial or funeral service arrangements, supervision of the memorial or funeral service, andstaff to attend the service in our funeral chapel Monday through Friday. Live Stream is included with this service.USE OF EQUIPMENT & STAFF FOR WEEKDAY GRAVESIDE SERVICE......................................................................... $575Our services include accompaniment of remains to cemetery, supervision of the graveside service, and staff to attend the serviceMonday through Friday.USE OF EQUIPMENT & STAFF FOR WEEKDAY CHURCH SERVICE............................................................................... $550Our services include coordinating the funeral arrangements, supervision of the funeral, and staff to attend the funeral ceremonyMonday through Friday. TRANSPORTATIONTRANSFER OF REMAINS TO FUNERAL HOME……………………….................................................................……………$425Beyond 25 miles, add $ 4 per mile. Removal (Decedent over 28” W or 300+ lbs.) ………………….........................................................................................…...……$500 *TRANSFER OF DECOMPOSED REMAINS…………………………….................................................................…....$550HEARSE (Casket Coach) ………………………………................................................................……………………………………$650 Beyond 25 miles, add $ 4 per mile.LIMOSINE…………………………………………………………………………….........................................................……...……$600 Beyond 25 miles, add $ 4 per mile.LEAD VEHICLE/SEDAN…………………………………............................................................……………………………………$250 Beyond 25 miles, add $ 4 per mile.SERVICE/UTILITY VEHICLE…………………………………………………...........................................................……………...$350 Beyond 25 miles, add $ 4 per mile. WEEKEND & HOLIDAY SERVICES ARE AN ADDITIONAL CHARGE OF $200

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LEGACY ENHANCEMENTSE c c l e s i a s t e s 3 : 1 1 H e h a s m a d e e v e r y t h i n g b e a u t i f u l i n i t s t i m e . A l s o , h e h a s p u t e t e r n i t yi n t o m a n ' s h e a r t , y e t s o t h a t h e c a n n o t f i n d o u t w h a t G o d h a s d o n e f r o m t h e b e g i n n i n g t o t h ee n d .Home Service Equipment…………………….……………………………………………….................................................. $350 Memorial Tribute Video (50 Pictures Max.) .….………………………….............................................………………….... $200 Memorial Plaque – Framed………………………....…........................................................................................................$50 Personalized Cap Panel…………………………………………………………………….…..................................................$300ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS CARDSType A – per twenty-five – Simplicity…………..$50 Type B – per twenty-five – Premium………..$75REGISTER BOOK(S)Type A – each – Simplicity……….…………….…...$50 Type B – each – Premium………………………..$75Flag Case Standard $89 - Premium with Engraving $408 Attendee Thank You Bags (Thank you bag with your loved one’s favorite candy and remembrance token for guests) 50………………………$399 100……………………$599 150……………………..$799 200……………………$1000 LEGACY SERVICESDove Release……………………………….…………………………………………………........................................…..... $600Balloon Release……………………………………………………………………………..........................................…....... $550Balloon Arch. …………………….………………………………………………………........................................………... $650Horse Drawn Carriage…………………………………………………………………............................................…......... $1500Live Stream (Where available) ………………………………………………………….................................................….. $120OTHER SERVICESDisinterment…………………………………………………………………………………..…............................................ $2995Repatriation……………………………………………………………………………………........................................…... $1500Home Visitations (over-night) ……………………………………………..................................................……….…..…....$1200Home Visitations (4 hrs.) ……………………………………………………................................................…..………......$800Rush Cremations (within 3 days if possible) ………………………………………............................................................. $300Mailing of Cremated Remains……………………………………………….................................................……….….…..$250Minister……………………………………………………………………………………………...................................…...$250Musician……………………………………………………………………………………………….....................................$250Soloist (2 Selections)………………………………………………………………………………..................................…....$250Death Certificate Re-Processing……………….................................................………………………………………….... $150

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OTHER SERVICESI s a i a h 4 0 : 3 1 - B u t t h e y w h o w a i t f o r t h e L o r d s h a l l r e n e w t h e i r s t r e n g t h ; t h e y s h a l l m o u n t u pw i t h w i n g s l i k e e a g l e s ; t h e y s h a l l r u n a n d n o t b e w e a r y ; t h e y s h a l l w a l k a n d n o t f a i n t .RECEIVING OF REMAINS FROM OTHER FUNERAL HOME……………………………………………………….…................$1800 This charge includes temporary shelter of remains, transportation of remains to cemetery, and necessary services of funeral directory andstaff.FORWARDING REMAINS TO ANOTHER FUNERAL HOME This charge includes removal of remains, necessary services of funeral director and staff, embalming necessary authorizations, and localtransportation to airport. A. With minimum shipping container……………………………………………………………………….....................................…. $1950 B. With Casket selected from our funeral home (in addition to the cost of the casket).................................................................... $1750IMMEDIATE BURIALS/GREEN BURIAL……………………………............................…………………………………$4520 to $48,875 Our charge for an immediate burial, includes removal and shelter of remains, local transportation to the cemetery, graveside services,necessary services of funeral director and staff, and authorizations.A.Immediate burial with casket provided by purchaser…………………..........................................................…………………………..$4520B.Immediate burial with: Eco Friendly Wicker Casket……………….......................................................…………………………….….$6575C.Immediate burial with casket selected from our funeral home. (In addition to cost of the casket)………………………………………...................................................…………………………………..$4520DIRECT CREMATION………………………………………………………………………………….......................…….……$1,700 to $6320Our charge for a direct cremation without any attendant rites or ceremonies includes removal of remains, local transportation tocrematory, necessary services of funeral director and staff, and authorizations. If you want to arrange a direct cremation, you can use analternative container. Alternative containers encase the body and can be made of materials like fiberboard or composition materials (withor without an outside covering). The containers we provide are fiberboard.A.Direct cremation with container provided by purchaser………………………………….…...........................................................…...$1700B.Direct cremation with fiberboard container………………………………………………………....................................................……$1795C.Direct cremation with casket selected from our funeral home.(In addition to the cost of the casket) …………………………………………………………………......................................................…$1700County Medical Examiners Cremation Exam Fee……………………………………………………..............................................….…....$50CREMATION WITH TRADITIONAL SERVICE…………………………………………………………………...................……….….$500*Cremation (Decedent over 28” W or 300+ lbs.) ………………….....…..$250 AdditionalURN FILLING (urns not purchased with us) ……………………………...........…….$75CASKETS.......................................................................... …………………..............................................................……..$1,699 to $83,790 A complete price list will be provided at the funeral home.OUTER BURIAL CONTAINERS............................................... …………………….....................................................…..$1525 to $4765 A complete price list is provided in this booklet.CREMATION URN…………………………………………………………………………………………….....................….…….$90 to $2330 A complete price list will be provided at the funeral home.AIR TRAY................................................................................................................................ …………...................................…….....$400RENTAL CASKET……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………...........…$700

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Bronze by Doric Triple wall protection $4,765.00 Lydian by Doric Triple wall protection $4,515.00 Athenian by Doric Triple wall protection $3,340.00 Patrician by Doric Double wall protection $2,525.00 Phoenix by Doric Double wall protection $2,380.00 Tiara by Doric Double wall protection $2,225.00 Titan by Doric Double wall protection $1,875.00 Lydian by Doric Over-Sized Triple wall protection $4,715.00 Athenian by Doric Over-Sized Triple wall protection $3,540.00 Patrician by Doric Over-Sized Double wall protection $2,925.00 Tiara by Doric Over-Sized Double wall protection $2,525.00 Titan by Doric Over-Sized Double wall protection $2,275.00 Grave Liner by Doric $1, 525.00Grave Liner by Doric Over-Sized $1,725.00OUTER BURIAL CONTAINERSR o m a n s 8 : 2 8 : A n d w e k n o w t h a t i n a l l t h i n g s G o d w o r k s f o r t h e g o o d o f t h o s e w h o l o v e H i m ,w h o h a v e b e e n c a l l e d a c c o r d i n g t o H i s p u r p o s e .THESE PRICES ARE EFFECTIVE AS OFFEBRUARY 01, 2024 AND ARE SUBJECT TOCHANGE WITHOUT NOTICE. “STATE OR LOCAL LAW DOES NOT REQUIRETHAT YOU BUY A CONTAINER TO SURROUNDTHE CASKET. HOWEVER, CEMETERIES MAYREQUIRE AN OUTER BURIAL CONTAINER.EITHER A GRAVE LINER OR BURIAL VAULTWILL SATISFY THESE REQUIREMENTS.”DISCLAIMER OF WARRANTIESELLIS D JONES & SONS FUNERAL DIRECTORS, INC. MAKES NO REPRESENTATIONS ORWARRANTIES REGARDING THE OUTER BURIAL CONTAINERS LISTED ABOVE. THE ONLYWARRANTIES, EXPRESSED OR IMPLIED, GRANTED IN CONNECTION WITH THE OUTERBURIAL CONTAINERS ARE THE EXPRESS WRITTEN WARRANTIES, IF ANY EXTENDED BYTHE MANUFACTURERS THEREOF. ELLIS D. JONES & SONS FUNERAL DIRECTORS, INC.HEREBY EXPRESSLY DISCLAIMS ALL WARRANTIES, EXPRESSED OR IMPLIED, RELATINGTO THE OUTER BURIAL CONTAINER, INCLUDING, BUT NOT LIMITED TO, THE IMPLIEDWARRANTIES OF MERCHANTABILITY AND FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE.

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FUNERAL PROGRAMS2 T i m o t h y 1 : 7 : F o r G o d d i d n o t g i v e u s a s p i r i t o f t i m i d i t y , b u t a s p i r i t o f p o w e r , o f l o v e a n do f s e l f - d i s c i p l i n e .*PROGRAM INFORMATION (OBITUARY, ORDER OF SERVICE, AND PICTURES) ARE TO BEELECTRONICALLY SUBMITTED HANDWRITTEN DRAFTS WILL NOT BE ACCEPTED EMAIL TOINFO@ELLISDJONES.COM*EMAIL OBITUARY, ORDER OF SERVICE, & PHOTOS TO: INFO@ELLISDJONES.COMPROGRAM DESIGN & PRINTING………………….............................................................................$220 & UPBI-FOLD TWO-SIDED COLOR PROGRAMS ON 8 ½ X 11 PAPER (4 PANELS). 50 DESIGN OPTIONS. LIMITED TO 4 PICTURES MAX.100- $220 200- $280300- $360 400- $440 BOOKLET COLOR PROGRAMS ON 8 ½ X 11 PAPER (8 PANELS). 50 DESIGN OPTIONS. LIMITED TO 25 PICTURES MAX.100- $400 200- $560300- $720 400- $880BI-FOLD TABLOID ON 11 X 17 PAPER (4 PANELS)CLIENTS MAY CHOOSE PROGRAM COLOR 10 PICTURE MAX.100- $ 620 200- $920300- $ 1,220 400- $1,520BOOKLET TABLOID ON 11 X 17 PAPER (8 PANELS)CLIENTS MAY CHOOSE PROGRAM COLOR 25 PICTURE MAX.100- $ 820 200- $1,030300- $ 1,390 400- $1,750PROGRAM DRAFT WILL BE SENT VIA EMAIL, ALL PRICES INCLUDE DESIGNING, TYPESETTING,SCANNING, COPIES, STAPLING, FOLDING AND PAPER. PRINTINGFOR CLIENTS THAT DESIGN AND FORMAT THEIR OWN PROGRAMS, WE CAN PRINT THE FOLLOWINGSIZE PROGRAMS. $0.80- 8 ½ X 11 BI-FOLD $1.60- 8 ½ X 11 BOOKLET $1.80- 11 X 17 BI FOLD $3.60- 11 X 17 BOOKLETANY REQUEST FOR ADDITIONAL PROGRAMS WILL BE CHARGED AT THE PRINTING RATES ABOVE.

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CEMETERIES & MEMORIAL PARKST h e r e h a t h n o t e m p t a t i o n t a k e n y o u b u t s u c h a s i s c o m m o n t o m a n : b u t G o d i s f a i t h f u l , w h ow i l l n o t s u f f e r y o u t o b e t e m p t e d a b o v e t h a t y e a r e a b l e ; b u t w i l l w i t h t h e t e m p t a t i o n a l s om a k e a w a y t o e s c a p e , t h a t y e m a y b e a b l e t o b e a r i t .1 C o r i n t h i a n s 1 0 : 1 3 K J VGLENVIEW MEMORIAL PARK APEX HWY, DURHAM, NC 27707 (919) 596-8102$1,800 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKDAY)$1,900 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKEND)MAPLEWOOD CEMETERY1621 DUKE UNIVERSITY RD, DURHAM, NC 27701 (919) 560-4156 $2,200 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKDAY)$2,500 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKEND)BEECHWOOD CEMETERY3300 FAYETTEVILLE ST, DURHAM, NC 27707 (919) 560-4154$2,200 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKDAY)$2,500 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKEND)WOODLAWN MEMORIAL PARK2107 LIBERTY ST, DURHAM, NC 27703 (919) 682-2441$2,300 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKDAY)$2,500 INLCUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKEND)MARKHAM MEMORIAL GARDENS4826 TRENTON RD, CHAPEL HILL, NC 27517 (919) 489-9128$2,369.50 INLCUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKDAY)OAK GROVE MEMORIAL GARDENS3712 CHEEK RD, DURHAM, NC 27704 (919) 688-5507$2,900 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKDAY)$3,100 INCLUDING OPEN & CLOSE (WEEKEND)

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AUTHORIZATION TO EMBALMA n d l e t t h e p e a c e o f G o d r u l e i n y o u r h e a r t s , t o t h e w h i c h a l s o y e a r e c a l l e d i n o n e b o d y ;a n d b e y e t h a n k f u l .C o l o s s i a n s 3 : 1 5 K J VAUTHORIZATION FOR EMBALMING THE UNDERSIGNED REPRESENTS TO ELLIS D.JONES AND SONS, INC. FUNERAL DIRECTORS AT419 DOWD ST DURHAM, NC 27701(FUNERAL HOME) THAT THE UNDERSIGNED IS THE SURVIVING SPOUSE OR THENEXT OF KIN OF (DECEDENT), OR IS THE LEGAL REPRESENTATION OF SUCHPERSON AND AS SUCH HAS THE PARAMOUNT RIGHT TO DIRECT THE DISPOSITIONOF THE BODY OF THE DECEDENT. THE UNDERSIGNED AUTHORIZES AND DIRECTSTHE FUNERAL HOME, ITS EMPLOYEES, INDEPENDENT CONTRACTORS, ANDAGENTS (INCLUDING APPRENTICES AND/OR MORTUARY STUDENTS) TO CARE FOREMBALM AND PREPARE THE BODY OF THE DECEDENT. THE UNDERSIGNEDACKNOWLEDGES THAT AUTHORIZATION ENCOMPASSES PERMISSION TO EMBALMAND FOR THE TRANSFER OF REMAINS TO· THE FUNERAL HOME OR ANOTHERFACILITY EQUIPPED FOR EMBALMING AND THE COST INCURRED ARE THERESPONSIBILITY OF THE UNDERSIGNED AND/OR THE ESTATE OF THE DECEDENT.SIGNATURES & RELATIONSHIP TO DECEDENT: ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ DATE: _____________________________________ 419 DOWD ST./PO BOX 645 DURHAM, NC 27702-0645 919-688-1323 (OFC) 919 688-1324 (FAX)WWW.ELLISDJONES.COM

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WE ARE BLESSED TO BE CELEBRATING 88 YEARS OF SERVICE TO THE FAMILIES OFDURHAM AND SURROUNDING AREAS. WE STRIVE TO HELP OUR FAMILIES BEFORE,DURING AND AFTER THE FUNERAL SERVICE. WE OFFER INNOVATIVE PROGRAMSSUCH AS OUR PREARRANGEMENT FUNERAL/CREMATION PLANNING, OR PRE-NEEDCOUNSELING WHICH OFFERS YOU A FREE GUIDE TO PLANNING AHEAD; OUR BOOK,"A FAMILY'S GUIDE TO MAKING FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS" WHICH IS PROVIDE ATTHE TIME OF NEED, ALONG WITH ATTENTION TO EVERY DETAIL OF THE FUNERALOR MEMORIAL SERVICE; AND OUR "ROSEBUD" AFTERCARE PROGRAM WHICHCONSIST OF AN ANNUAL CANDLELIGHT REMEMBRANCE PROGRAM. THIS IS WHYOUR MOTTO IS: "ANYONE CAN DO THE ORDINARY, IT'S HOW WE DO THEEXTRAORDINARY THAT IS THE TRUE MEASURE OF OUR SERVICE." WE WANT TO BE YOUR "GRIEF EXPERTS", THAT IS WHY WE OFFER GRIEFEDUCATION WORKSHOPS FOR COMMUNITY AND CIVIC GROUPS, ALONG WITH OUR"PLANNING AHEAD FOR THE FUTURE" SEMINARS. WE CAN PROVIDE A LIST OFSUPPORT GROUPS IN THE AREA THAT CAN BE ASSISTANCE TO YOU. YOU CAN FINDA LIST TO THOSE ORGANIZATIONS AND THEIR WEBSITES AT OUR RESOURCES LINKUNDER HELPFUL LINKS. THERE ARE ALSO READING MATERIALS ON GRIEFAVAILABLE IN OUR OFFICE. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ASK FOR ANY INFORMATIONAND/OR RESOURCES THAT YOU NEED. EMAIL OR CALL 919-688-1323. ELLIS D. JONES & SONS, INC. IS A FAMILY OWNED ANDOPERATED FUNERAL BUSINESS, FOUNDED IN 1935 BYELLIS D. JONES, SR. THE TRADITION OF RESPECTFULFAMILY SERVICE WAS CONTINUED BY ELLIS D. JONES,JR. UNTIL 1991. MICHAEL G. JONES, SR. AND HIS LATEWIFE, NELLIE TAYLOR JONES, WERE THE THIRDGENERATION TO SERVE THE FAMILIES OF DURHAM ANDSURROUNDING AREAS DURING THEIR TIME OFBEREAVEMENT. THEIR DAUGHTER, NINA A. JONESMASON IS THE FOURTH GENERATION OF JONESFUNERAL DIRECTORS. NOW WE ARE HAPPY TOANNOUNCE THAT THEIR SON MICHAEL JONES II HASJOINED THE FAMILY BUSINESS. WWW.ELLISDJONES.COM(919) 688-1323INFO@ELLISDJONES.COM

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WWW.ELLISDJONES.COM(919) 688-1323INFO@ELLISDJONES.COMAFTER THE UNEXPECTED DEATH OF HIS WIFE, IRISH AUTHOR C.S. LEWIS WROTE IN A GRIEFOBSERVED, "NO ONE EVER TOLD ME THAT GRIEF FELT SO LIKE FEAR. THE DEATH OF ABELOVED IS AN AMPUTATION."WHILE DEALING WITH GRIEF IS NOT EASY, WE BELIEVE THE RESOURCES WITHIN THISSECTION OF OUR WEBSITE CAN HELP. SHOULD YOU NEED ADDITIONAL SUPPORT INGRIEVING YOUR LOSS, PLEASE CALL US. WE WILL DO EVERYTHING WE CAN TO ASSIST YOU.GRIEVING WITH PURPOSE.NO ONE IS PREPARED FOR GRIEF. THE RUSH OF FEELINGS, THE THOUGHTS, ANXIETIES, ANDHEARTACHE CAN TAKE US BY SURPRISE AND DRIVE US TO OUR KNEES. YET, WHEN WECHOOSE TO HARNESS THAT POWER FOR SELF-GROWTH, AMAZING THINGS CAN HAPPEN.GOOD CAN COME FROM PAIN.SIGMUND FREUD FIRST BROUGHT UP THE CONCEPT OF GRIEF WORK IN 1917, AND TODAY THEIDEA THAT BEREAVEMENT IS PURPOSE-DRIVEN CONTINUES. DR. JAMES WORDEN CHOSE TOSEE THE WORK OF BEREAVEMENT AS TASK-ORIENTED:TO ACCEPT THE REALITY OF THE LOSS1.TO PROCESS THE PAIN OF GRIEF2.TO ADJUST TO A WORLD WITHOUT THE DECEASED3.TO FIND AN ENDURING CONNECTION WITH THE DECEASED IN THE MIDST OF EMBARKINGON A NEW LIFE4.YOUR CURRENT JOB IS TO FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ON ACHIEVING EACH OF THOSE GOALS.IT WILL NOT OCCUR IN ANY LOGICAL ORDER; EACH OF US IS DIFFERENT AND THE PATH WEWALK IN THE BEREAVEMENT JOURNEY IS NOT A STRAIGHT ONE.DEALING WITH GRIEF IS HARD WORK. IT TAKES BOTH COURAGE AND HARD WORK TOSUCCESSFULLY ADAPT TO THE LOSS OF A SIGNIFICANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. GRIEF WITH PURPOSE“LIVE WITH HOPE AND LEARN TO COPE”-MAE FRANCES HAYWOOD