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8 Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce n r e d mo ugar co Scar lett Cougar

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce by Ms Scarlett Cougar

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Copyright 2018 Fiercely Creative Corporation DBA Scarlett Cougar All rights reserved ISBN 1542750296 ISBN 13 978 1542750295 V2 1

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Dedication Scarlett Cougar has had a very BIG life Taking on grand impossible responsibilities and often over zealous in ambition this primarily due to her previous hybrid life formula A legacy of codependency the kind that takes care of The Everything and Living on borrowed time via several pacemakers You know that panic you get when your phone is at 20 Yea she turned that into a superpower fueled by fear and faith NOT faith fueled fear Anyways it had got to be A LOT to live around a person like her That said From the bottom of her lithium battery assisted heart she deeply thanks her Heroes Her Outstanding Family Step Mum Barbara Cousin Connie Cousin Carmen Her Amazing Friends Dr David Coleen Sharon Zan Marc Maria Brooke Judy Debra Her BFFs Partners in Dating Crime Ellen Margarita

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Introduction Read Me FIRST i C U Next Tuesday 1 Quiet the Inside Chatter 3 Fakebook Blocking 5 The Law of Circulation a LOOPHOLE to Shop 7 Get A Therapist STAT 11 Mutual Friends 13 Add a NEW Community 15 Esquire You Say 17 Who is Scarlett Cougar 19

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar If my life wasn t funny then it would just be true And that is unacceptable Carrie Fisher

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Read Me First Paralyzed Much If you or someone you know is at the onset of a breakup or divorce this might just be the right book to try on Paralyzed by anger frustration betrayal or humiliation some or all of it Yep that s totally normal Oh and the BIGGIE is questioning trust Trust in relationships friendships your judgement or life as a whole In that sometimes we stay in what we are sure of our perception of the present horrible situation and the attribution of blame And we cycle through The Story for weeks months some remain trapped for years Liberation When that stops working for you and you are ready to shake that unworkability You might want to start with these baby steps Because here is your real truth You deserve an amazing life and it s waiting for you This Divorce is a liberation not a betrayal I promise Smile Guarantee Scarlett is not going to ask you to believe in fairytales However she will ask you to hold a space for a miracle as you are standing in front of one right now If these reads do not garner a smile you have Scarlett s money back guarantee Scarlett s Spiritual Intention Support those experiencing an enormous life shift and remind them they are NOT alone Acknowledge sharp topics with small doses of snark for a laugh WITH the intention to shift perception to a peaceful way of thinking Deliver steady reminders NOT to sit in the hurt or allow IN personal judgment of others i

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Scarlett Cougar Woman The OTHER We refer to her as Tuesday Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar 1 C U Next Tuesday Scarlett has decided to lead with a big topic and that s The Tuesday If you haven t heard this acrynom before the title is urban slang for the smalled of female personalities A Tuesday does not operate within girl code of The Sisterhood or defined her integrity or value system thus working towards becoming The Other Woman Scarlett s double negative You are either with The Sisterhood or ya ain t If there is a Tuesday in the mess of your separation divorce know this Your thenhusband is solely responsible for his actions and there is no deferring blame onto a Tuesday HOWEVER a Tuesday is a desperate lonely oftehn younger chick typically in a panic of her internal noise AND engaged in chase of The Cinderella Syndrome All at the expense of her self respect WHICH sets rules for THAT relationship A Mid life Crisis Douchebag will exploit a small minded Tuesday knowing she is devoted to her life checklist which holds bagging a guy even someone elses and start playing house PLUS all those years you raised him he will try out emulating you in leadership and likely start dressing and acting like dudes her age After the smoke clears it s going to be hilarious The end game looks like this Ultimately one will cheat on the other WOKE The Universe will clean it up and YOU will have long since blossomed 2

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Who is Scarlett Cougar A Spiritual Intention Support those experiencing an enormous life shift remind them they are NOT alone Acknowledge sharp topics with small doses of snark for a laugh with the intention to shift perception to a peaceful way of thinking Deliver steady reminders NOT to sit in the hurt or allow IN the judgment of others A Short Version Just one woman surviving emancipation from a codependent marriage through an even messier separation and expensive lengthy divorce while navigating her ego though all of her biggest fears A Spiritual Twist She too experienced the transition to a new life as a single woman in her 50 s trying on digital dating and a divine shift in perspective about herself and a new approach to this mortal coil A Disclaimer She s no shrink has no degree in human behavior nor is a spiritual practitioner An Observation She is a thriving Hair Designer of 23 years privileged to have shared 1000 s of intimate conversations and to have been trusted by and learnt from her fascinating real clientele A Snarky Addendum Her pocketbooks are shorter versions of larger thoughts from her novel loaded with provocative snark about the loneliness and gifts of divorce speaking to the situation with raw candor m Your best thinking kept you loyal to that mess let s try NEUTRAL on share few laughs and get you out m 18

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar In addition to her upcoming novel here are a couple other of Scarlett s Pocketbooks each with 8 bite sized topics for your consideration how to treat yourself A few considerables on shine both inside and out to your t everyone in front of For years you have pu pour back into you self care It s time to Yea so online datin g has been curious to say the least Scarle tt really had to pull back on her blather as the in sanity of this new normal is givi ng her endless material to write ab out

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Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Ugh Dating Exciting Weird and Digital 8 ing is EEBIE Online Dat Enjoy an Online FR e for the most intimat a foreign platform e u are about to mak relationship that yo e latest tips tricks th e ar e er H e m co wel g en when navigatin for both Men Wom world of dating through the digital Considerations for Men when Dating Scarlett Cougar These are a few Key s to the Kingdom written exclusively for men Perfect fo r someone just gettin g back out there or a man that really wants to polish up their gam e

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I approve this Pocketbook Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce Scarlett Cougar Scar lett Cougar 2018 Scarlett Cougar is a product of Fiercely Creative Corp www scarlettcougar com s ginger scarlettcougar com