This handbook will help your congregation design procedures and policies and guide you in handling allegations of misconduct.

MISCONDUCT IN MINISTRY A HANDBOOK FOR CONGREGATIONAL CHURCHES The Misconduct Committee of the NACCC Becci Dawson Cox Rev Dr Arlin T Larson chair Rev Dr Betsey Mauro staff Varnum Philbrook Rev Arthur Ritter Rev Casey vanderBent staff Revised April 18 2014 April 2014
MISCONDUCT IN MINISTRY  A HANDBOOK FOR CONGREGATIONAL CHURCHES  The Misconduct Committee of the NACCC Becci Dawson-Cox Rev...
Table of Contents INTRODUCTION 1 1 CHURCH IS A SANCTUARY 3 2 MINISTRY IS NOT JUST FOR MINISTERS 4 3 WHAT CONSTITUTES MISCONDUCT 5 4 HANDLING ALLEGATONS OF MISCONDUCT 7 5 CONSULTING THE NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF CONGREGATIONAL CHRISTIAN CHURCHES 9 6 MINISTERING TO ALL PARTIES 11 7 PROMOTING A SAFE ENVIRONMENT 14 8 OUTCOMES RESTORATION REPENTANCE FORGIVENESS 16 CONCLUSION NO HURT OR HARM ON GOD S HOLY MOUNTAIN 19 RESOURCES 20
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1 INTRODUCTION Hopefully you are not reading this handbook because you are scrambling to get a handle on an incident involving allegations of misconduct against your pastor a staff member or a lay leader of your church If that is the case this handbook will be useful but by far the best time to prepare for such things is long before they occur Much confusion finger pointing and blaming as well as misunderstandings and personality conflicts can be avoided when a church has policies and procedures in place that it follows Enforcement of ethical standards should be seen as a necessary proper and normal function of a well ordered church Just before Jesus tells his disciples Where two or three meet together in my name I am there among them our warrant for Congregationalism he had been speaking to them about church discipline If your brother does wrong go and take the matter up with him strictly between yourselves If he listens to you you have won your brother over But if he will not listen take one or two others with you so that every case may be settled on the evidence of two or three witnesses If he refuses to listen to them report the matter to the congregation and if he will not listen even to the congregation then treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector Matthew 18 15 17 REB Likewise Paul writes to the Galatians If anyone is caught doing something wrong you my friends who live by the Spirit must gently set him right Look to yourself each one of you you also may be tempted Carry one another s burdens and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ Galatians 6 1 2 REB This handbook is designed to encourage discussion in your church as to why certain actions are inappropriate or unacceptable not only for the clergy but for all who are engaged in service in the name of your church see Section 2 It will help you design procedures and policies for your congregation and guide you in handling allegations of misconduct should they occur and encourage you to cooperate with secular authorities in accordance with the law After a broad discussion of misconduct in ministry we will turn to concrete steps your church can take to lessen the likelihood of misconduct and how responsibly to handle allegations should they occur You will learn about the assistance the National Association of Congregational Christian Churches NACCC can provide and be directed to additional resources
1  INTRODUCTION Hopefully, you are not reading this handbook because you are scrambling to get a handle on an incident inv...
2 Much work on these topics has been accomplished in recent years driven in large part by well publicized clergy sex abuse scandals A general consensus has been reached crossing denominational lines Our handbook relies heavily on this work that others have done At the same time however Congregational polity is different enough that a manual specifically for the churches of the NACCC is called for When it comes to the ordained clergy most other groups turn to a central authority We uniquely uphold each local church as a final authority Local churches are responsible for ordaining calling installing authorizing supervising and when appropriate disciplining our clergy and lay leaders Church members fellow churches in the National Association and citizens of the communities our churches serve all depend on the integrity of the local church s actions in these areas
2 Much work on these topics has been accomplished in recent years, driven in large part by well-publicized clergy sex abus...
3 1 CHURCH IS A SANCTUARY Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest Take my yoke on you and learn from me because I am gentle and humble in heart and you will find rest for your souls For my yoke is easy to bear and my load is not hard to carry Matthew 11 28 30 REB To understand what constitutes inappropriate or unacceptable conduct it is helpful first to remind ourselves of the central functions of a church A church is called to be a place of sanctuary a holy place a place of safety a place to which one may turn to find peace and rest Christ invited his followers to experience the Kingdom of God life lived as God would have it The church is a place to turn to in time of need and where one can expect to be welcomed in love and treated with respect The Book of Revelation looks forward to a time when God is fully present and will wipe away every tear and where there will be no more death or crying or mourning or pain for a new order will have begun A church is called to be such a place as far as is humanly possible where the ills of this world are taken up in the love of God Similar thoughts can be found in every book of the Bible Traditionally the work of churches has been called the care of souls Joining a church is not the same as joining other institutions It is not only for some limited purpose To the church we entrust our whole persons our inner selves our very souls Furthermore by joining this community of mutual care we assume responsibility for the well being of others both within the congregation and without Ministry must always be directed toward the benefit of those who have trustingly turned to the church for succor There is no place for exploitation or abuse or neglect by those engaged in ministry Whenever those things occur or are allowed Christ is denied and doubt is cast upon the authenticity of the entire enterprise
3  1. CHURCH IS A SANCTUARY    Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke on y...
4 2 MINISTRY IS NOT JUST FOR MINISTERS Your church is just filled with people who minister actively serving others in its behalf Sunday School teachers music directors helpers in the food pantry members of the prayer circle greeters at worship deacons trustees the moderator ushers and acolytes members of the choir Bible study leaders workers at a benefit supper and let s not forget the pastor and paid staff the list goes on and on Whoever engages in a ministry enters a ministerial relationship with those who receive that ministry We cannot limit our thinking about appropriate and inappropriate ministerial relationships to those involving clergy While by virtue of their ordination members of the clergy do have unique authority and responsibility both within the church and in civil law it must always be remembered that all who minister to others in the name of their church make a sacred promise We no longer just act or speak on our own authority When we minister we are accountable accountable to God and to the church we represent Our words and actions reflect as much on our church and the Gospel as they do on us A church must therefore use care in selecting those who minister and be diligent about restraining or removing those who abuse or misuse the privilege It must also be diligent in following the laws of its locality and not thinking that all church matters can be handled internally In the Bible ministry is often described as shepherding Jesus culminating the line of shepherds called by God that we know from the Old Testament is described as the Good Shepherd par excellence His last words to Peter are Peter if you love me tend my sheep With good reason we look to Christ s example as our primary model of what constitutes good ministry In the wider world the obligation of one in a helping or responsible role is often described as a duty of care or fiduciary responsibility These terms have somewhat different legal definitions in various contexts but they all go to the point that the agent the servant must put the interests of the person being helped first The person being helped the one who depends on the other must always be the end or goal to be served and never a means to be used by the agent for their own gain whether it is an adviser counselor teacher or pastor
4  2. MINISTRY IS NOT JUST FOR MINISTERS Your church is just filled with people who minister, actively serving others in i...
5 3 WHAT CONSTITUTES MISCONDUCT If good conduct in ministry can be described as good shepherding then bad or mis conduct can appropriately be described as bad shepherding or misuse of the shepherd s role and authority to harm rather than care for the sheep The Bible s strongest statement on these matters is in the 34th chapter of Ezekiel Therefore you shepherds hear the word of the LORD As I live says the Lord GOD because my sheep have become a prey and my sheep have become food for all the wild animals since there was no shepherd and because my shepherds have not searched for my sheep but the shepherds have fed themselves and have not fed my sheep therefore you shepherds hear the word of the LORD Thus says the Lord GOD I am against the shepherds and I will demand my sheep at their hand and put a stop to their feeding the sheep no longer shall the shepherds feed themselves I will rescue my sheep from their mouths so that they may not be food for them Ezekiel 34 7 10 REB It is helpful to think of misconduct by considering related terms and concepts such as violation of the duty of care or fiduciary responsibility or conduct unbecoming a member of the clergy or member of the church These are the contexts in which particular actions whether of commission or omission must be judged The NACCC s Personal Code of Professional Practice www naccc org embraces a broad understanding I will not invade the private and intimate bonds of others lives nor will I trespass on those bonds for my own advantage or need when they are disturbed In any relationship of intimate confidentiality I will not exploit the needs of another person for my own Allegations of misconduct however will most likely be made based on specific actions or incidents While much attention has recently been given to sexual abuse it is by no means the only matter that might call for discipline The following is only a sampling of the kinds of actions commonly regarded as unacceptable or inappropriate in ministry some of which are also illegal under civil law Every Congregational church must come to its own understanding of these matters and is encouraged to use its own language or perhaps further define the terms as seems appropriate Conviction of a criminal offence Membership in an organization that contradicts a church s principles Domestic violence abuse or neglect of spouse or children Substance abuse
5  3. WHAT CONSTITUTES MISCONDUCT If good conduct in ministry can be described as good shepherding, then bad or mis-conduc...
6 Sexual misconduct of many varieties Clergy sexual abuse should be seen as a pastor s failure to be responsible for the boundaries that are entrusted to pastors to preserve Any sexual contact with a congregant by a pastor consensual or not is illegal is some states sexual contact or romantic involvement with someone being counseled is illegal sexual contact of any kind with a minor is illegal Sexual harassment includes any unwelcome sexual advance request for sexual favor and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature when submission to such conduct is made either explicitly or implicitly as a term or condition of employment submission to or rejection of such conduct is used as a factor in any employment decision affecting any individual or such conduct has the purpose or effect of unreasonably interfering with any employee s work performance or creating an intimidating hostile or offensive working environment Sexual harassment of staff in a church setting can be committed by a member not just a pastor Fiscal improprieties such as embezzlement or misappropriation Disregard of the churches covenants by laws policies and procedures Physical abuse causing bodily harm Emotional abuse that demeans denigrates or affects one s self esteem Neglect of those under one s care Neglect of one s duties in ministry Betrayal of confidences Dishonesty or deception Failure to perform legal obligations placed on clergy such as the duty to report suspected child abuse which is requires in some states Again this list is not intended to be comprehensive Your church may well want to add to it or delete from it
6      Sexual misconduct of many varieties. Clergy sexual abuse should be seen as a pastor   s failure to be responsible f...
7 4 HANDLING ALLEGATONS OF MISCONDUCT Having policies and procedures in place before an incident occurs makes a favorable outcome more likely and increases the likelihood that all parties will feel they have been treated fairly The following sample procedures are adapted from the United Church of Christ s Making Our Churches Safe for All1 Your church can adapt them to its particular structure and circumstances or consult the full document for advice on creating complete policies and procedures from scratch The central recommendation is for churches to form a Response Team that can be on call in case a situation arises The NACCC has no jurisdiction over member churches Each church is autonomous Therefore Response Teams must come from within the local church Education and training for Response Team members are therefore highly desirable A A Response Team of two or more members at least one male and one female will be established by the governing body of the church each year at its first meeting in preparation for the possibility of hearing concerns or complaints The Response Team will familiarize itself with church policies such as those regarding child safety counseling and ethics the laws of its state pertaining to these matters and the procedures for response to concerns and complaints Other teams devoted to pastoral care for those affected are discussed below in section 6 Ministering to All Parties If criminal actions are alleged law enforcement must promptly be notified in accordance with the laws of the state In this case the civil authorities will handle the investigation not the church B When information is received regarding alleged abuse or mistreatment of a child the Response Team will immediately notify secular authorities and will cooperate fully in the investigation In most states clergy and other church workers are legally mandated reporters of allegations of child abuse or abuse of a vulnerable adult Those procedures will also be followed to determine whether the person under investigation will continue in their present position C When concerns are raised about a pastor whether an employee or volunteer the Response Team is strongly urged notify the Executive Secretary of the NACCC how the National Association can help is discussed below It should also promptly notify the church s insurance company and the church s outside legal counsel not a member of the church Insurance companies specializing in church insurance will likely have experience in similar cases An outside attorney familiar with church life is advised to either conduct or oversee the investigation to ensure that it is handled professionally and in a way that does not raise further issues For those churches that do not have legal counsel with whom to consult on 1 Making Our Churches Safe for All An Introduction to Abuse Prevention for Local Churches UCC Insurance Board Gaithersburg MD 2004
7  4. HANDLING ALLEGATONS OF MISCONDUCT Having policies and procedures in place before an incident occurs makes a favorabl...
8 legal matters its insurance company is a good resource for securing appropriate legal counsel The local church however retains both the right and the responsibility to make decisions regarding employment and volunteer ministries as it determines best D If an informal resolution of the concern or complaint does not seem wise appropriate possible or does not succeed the person raising concerns may institute formal proceedings The proceedings should include the following steps a The Response Team will receive information from those conducting the investigation or will gather information itself from individuals involved in the incident of concern and from others who may have pertinent information b The Response Team will present information gathered to the supervisor of the employee or volunteer about whom a concern has been raised and to the governing board of the church or appropriate supervisory body of that individual i Finding that misconduct has occurred the appropriate body of the church is called upon to take action which may include one or more of the following Formal reprimand with defined expectations for changed behavior with possible public notification Recommending or requiring a program of growth which may include education or counseling Probation with terms of the probation clearly defined Dismissal from employment or volunteer leadership position or in some cases affiliation with or membership in the church as provided for in church policies bylaws etc ii Finding that no misconduct occurred This may involve formal notification of those who had a need to know and thus were previously notified of the concern and investigation E A written summary of the governing board or other supervisory body proceedings in such cases will be maintained F Any person who brings a concern or complaint forward or who assists in investigation of such a report will not be adversely affected in terms and conditions of employment church membership or employment or otherwise discriminated against or discharged G If the person bringing the concern or complaint or the accused person is not satisfied with the disposition of the matter he or she has the right to appeal to the senior elected officer of the congregation who will refer the matter to the governing board for resolution or reconsideration If the senior elected officer of the church is involved in the allegations appeal would be made through the succession of officers defined in the church s by laws
8 legal matters, its insurance company is a good resource for securing appropriate legal counsel. The local church, howeve...
9 5 CONSULTING THE NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF CONGREGATIONAL CHRISTIAN CHURCHES Allegations of misconduct are invariably distressing for everyone the complainant the accused those investigating the complaint and in all likelihood the entire congregation Healing typically takes years rather than weeks or months the time needed increasing with the over all impact the offender has previously had on the congregation You will need all the help and support you can find Traumatic as it is however similar events may have happened in other churches and in many cases successful outcomes will have been achieved Your National Association executives and others in the Association leadership cannot only serve as experienced sounding boards but may well be knowledgeable about situations like yours and able to put you in touch with additional help including professional consultants and advisers As soon as a complaint has come to your attention have your pastor contact the Executive Secretary of the NACCC If the accusation is against the pastor it will be advisable for both that pastor and the congregation s lay leader to be in touch Understand however that the NACCC does not have any supervisory or disciplinary authority over your pastor Neither does it control a minister s standing or status as an ordained member of the clergy Congregational ministers are ordained by a local church that is the sole authority over their employment If ordained in a different denomination his or her ordination is given the stamp of approval only by the Congregational church that calls and installs him or her The Unitarian Universalist Association has a polity much like ours Its document on handling complaints puts the governance and authority issue clearly and succinctly we need only substitute NACCC for UUA 2 Unlike many other religious bodies the National Association of Congregational Christian Churches NACCC is an association of member individual and independent congregations The role of the NACCC is to provide support to its member congregations It does not govern them In our tradition of congregational polity each member congregation has the power to ordain call hire supervise and dismiss ministers and other staff and to do so independently of the NACCC It is the congregation not the Association that takes responsibility for regulation of its own policies and staff How the NACCC relies on member churches in case of ministerial misconduct However disciplinary action taken against a pastor is not merely a concern for that particular church It is a concern for the NACCC and the entire fellowship of Congregational churches Any misconduct that warrants action by your church will also be of concern to any other church that 2 Process for Handling Complaints of Misconduct in Your Congregation www uua org
9  5. CONSULTING THE NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF CONGREGATIONAL CHRISTIAN CHURCHES Allegations of misconduct are invariably di...
10 considers that person for ministry To repeat in the NACCC there is no action that can be taken against a minister by any authority other than that minister s local church or the civil authorities If that action is not communicated to other churches however an abusive minister may well be called by another unsuspecting congregation One of the great scandals in church abuse cases is how in many cases pedophiles were simply transferred to other parishes where they often continued their harmful practices In the NACCC there is no central authority to blame Churches of the NACCC covenant to consult and advise together as Churches upon matters of common concern Articles of Association Alerting the wider fellowship is strictly the local church s responsibility Here is what you can do and how the NACCC can help Every minister using the NACCC s placement services to apply for a position in a church must have a Disclosure File Candidates put records of their education and ordination in it They give permission for a criminal background check They sign an affirmation of the NACCC s Personal Code of Professional Conduct If they are coming from another judicatory they must have a letter of reference This Disclosure File is available to any church to which that candidate applies These documents are collected by the NACCC as a service to the local church and it is up to the church to verify the information it contains and to request a background check It is wise for a church to only consider candidates who have established a Disclosure File If your church has to take disciplinary action against a pastor a record of the complaint the finding and the action can be placed by the church in that pastor s Disclosure File www naccc org allegations by individuals will not be accepted We strongly encourage the church to do so That way any other church who is considering that candidate will know of the action The candidate can also include an explanation or rebuttal into the Disclosure File but it is all there for future churches to consider The National Association cannot require your church to put action against its pastor on record but doing so is the only way we in the NACCC have of sanctioning serious misconduct and protecting our sister churches
10 considers that person for ministry. To repeat, in the NACCC, there is no action that can be taken against a minister by...
11 6 MINISTERING TO ALL PARTIES Allegations of misconduct against a pastor church leader or anyone involved in ministry are traumatic for all concerned Those bringing accusations not only suffer from the injuries they have received but when they go public make themselves vulnerable to the uncertain scrutiny and reaction of others Their trust in the church has been shaken yet they now have to rely on it in a new way The accused faces loss of reputation possible civil or criminal penalties and possibly loss of employment The whole congregation experiences a tear in the fabric of its communal life conflicting emotions and the possibility of long term divisions Church leadership is caught right in the middle Healing and reconciliation will be desperately needed The discussion below is adapted from the Presbyterian Church USA s Sexual Misconduct Policy and Its Procedures 3 Recognizing the Needs of All Involved To ensure that the governing body of the church is ready to meet the variety of pastoral needs presented it may also appoint Pastoral Teams perhaps chosen from the Board of Deacons or similar group to minister to parties involved in the incident These teams will not investigate the allegation or in any way function as investigating committees for disciplining members or officers but should confine themselves to coordinating a process that will address the specific needs of victims and their families if any of the accused and family if any and of the congregation s and governing bodies A The Needs of the Victim The Pastoral Team representing the church should assure that adequate treatment and care are available for alleged victims of misconduct and their families It is important to remember at the same time that the names and other private information about victims are not to be revealed except to those involved in the investigation Sometimes the victim or family is so angry and alienated from the church that offers of help may be perceived as insincere or as attempts at a cover up If the victim or family at first refuses the church should continue to offer help Above all the church should not act in a self protective manner by ignoring victim and their families The following are some of the needs of the victim 1 To experience healing Restoring the victim s sense of self and place in family community and church must remain the first priority Care must be taken not to revictimize or add to a victim s shame through loss of privacy or pressure to re live the 3 Presbyterian Church U S A Sexual Misconduct Policy and Its Procedures undated
11  6. MINISTERING TO ALL PARTIES Allegations of misconduct against a pastor, church leader or anyone involved in ministry...
12 abuse or bear the burden of forgiving to assuage the consciences of others The church must attend to the needs of the victim with the knowledge that those needs may include distancing from the church as well as the abuser The church may have difficulty relating to victims because of the embarrassment the alleged incident has caused and a desire to minimize the disruption 2 To be heard and taken seriously 3 To receive pastoral and therapeutic support The victim may require spiritual and professional assistance The Pastoral Team should offer to help arrange for such support from a pastor and therapist if the victim desires 4 To be informed about church process and progress with regard to the accusation 5 To be assured of an advocate of their own choosing 6 To be assured that justice will be pursued The victim needs to be told by the Pastoral Team and shown by the processes of the church that justice is being pursued through factfinding truth telling confrontation and agreement that may well include removal or temporary exclusion of the accused from office B The Needs of the Accused Feelings of guilt shame anger mistrust lowered self esteem depression unworthiness and feelings of alienation are often experienced by the accused In addition there may be fear of job loss or incarceration If allegations of misconduct are unsubstantiated or later discovered to be false it is important for the governing body or entity to see that this information is disseminated as widely as possible to counteract the stigma of merely having been accused It may also be helpful to offer the individual paid time off to recover emotionally 1 Personal Care Whether the allegations about the accused are eventually found to be true or not the accused deserves to be treated with Christian kindness and respect The Pastoral Team may suggest additional spiritual support or professional counseling 2 Economic Security and Care for Family of Accused When an allegation of misconduct has been made against a minister the economic security of the accused is directly threatened along with reputation career and family relationships C The Needs of a Congregation Misconduct by those engaged in ministry impacts congregations in many ways The governing body and Pastoral Team should be aware of the problems a congregation may experience following allegations of serious misconduct The allegations may
12 abuse or bear the burden of forgiving to assuage the consciences of others. The church must attend to the needs of the ...
13 polarize the congregation damage morale create serious internal problems and even limit the trust a congregation may place in succeeding pastors Church leaders who have worked closely with the offender will be especially impacted 1 Pastoral Care Members and staff of the congregation will need pastoral care If the pastor leaves as a result of his her misconduct a trained interim pastor or consultant may need to work with the congregation for an extended period of time 2 Information About the Case Members of the congregation will need opportunities both to receive and give information The pastor if not the accused or a consultant may hold appropriate meetings with individuals small groups or with the whole congregation Such meetings should provide information about the type of misconduct in question Congregational polity and the process now being pursued and how others who may have been victimized may be heard and ministered to At such meetings one may expect members to vent their feelings 3 Resource Persons In light of the above needs the following are several resource persons whose services might be valuable a trained interim pastor someone knowledgeable in polity and the effects of the type of misconduct in question a consultant or therapist with knowledge and experience in dealing with misconduct an attorney who can discuss legal aspects of a case an insurance agent who can advise the congregation about their exposure to liability
13 polarize the congregation, damage morale, create serious internal problems, and even limit the trust a congregation may...
14 7 PROMOTING A SAFE ENVIRONMENT In most cases it is more desirable to prevent a problem than to have to remedy it This is especially true when it comes to something that so frequently has devastating effects on people like misconduct in ministry A church will be best served by having policies and procedures in place for handling misconduct but one hopes that they never have to be used There are many things a church can do to lessen the likelihood of misconduct As church goers we want to be trusting and unassuming but our faith teaches us that all are subject to temptation even our Lord as he began his ministry Trust but verify The trusting atmosphere of a church even sometimes makes it a target for abusers or hucksters as countless sex abuse embezzlement and investment scam scandals have demonstrated Clearly defined roles formal and transparent lines of communication and decision making and congregational oriented rather than clergy oriented leadership make a big difference Abuse by clergy tends occurs more often in churches that are authoritarian and clergy centered A charismatic style often leads to a blurring of the lines between the personal and the professional in the minds of both the pastor and the congregation The congregation s trustful respect or more ardent adulation of the pastor further results in an abdication of its own responsibilities for governance Liability insurance from a company specializing in work with churches is highly desirable Steps to decrease the likelihood of misconduct can and should be taken in every area of church life What they have in common is assuring that everything takes place in the full light of day Below are just a few examples For more comprehensive information see the Resources section Recent years have seen a renewed emphasis on child safety Youth workers are being subject to background checks It becomes policy always to have two adults present Waiting periods before a new person can work with children are being instituted Enrollment forms ask to whom a child may be released Windows are added to classroom doors Having clear rules and guidelines for all aspects of church life is critical Good bylaws are critical to good church order and practice as is the development of a culture that discourages exceptions and end runs Clear job descriptions set expectations and boundaries A culture that insists on civility helps check aggressive and abusive personalities Regular audits and separating the roles of those who spend the money and those who account for it keeps everything above board as does having more than one person present when the offering is counted and having a clearly prescribed process for how when and by whom deposits are made
14  7. PROMOTING A SAFE ENVIRONMENT In most cases, it is more desirable to prevent a problem than to have to remedy it. Th...
15 Churches often have bylaws governing the termination of employment of a pastor They should be amended to allow for immediate suspension without a majority vote when criminal charges have been filed and for dismissal if further investigation leads to the conclusion that the charges were substantiated by a preponderance of the evidence The reason for this is that it is often difficult if not impossible to provide enough information to the congregation to achieve a majority vote without a violation of victim s privacy rights Without this addition leadership may be tempted to let the pastor resign quietly in violation of law and of their responsibility to the community and other churches When it comes to hiring the NACCC s Minister s Information Form and Disclosure File will help you know better the qualifications and background of applicants In these and many areas of church life long experience has resulted in commonly agreed upon best practices to save churches from having constantly to re invent the wheel For more detailed information consult the NACCC s Handbook especially chapter 3 Congregationalism in Practice www naccc org Church Mutual Insurance also has a wealth of helpful information on good practices and reminds us that failure to do our due diligence can have serious legal and financial consequences www churchmutual com
15 Churches often have bylaws governing the termination of employment of a pastor. They should be amended to allow for imm...
16 8 OUTCOMES RESTORATION REPENTANCE FORGIVENESS What do we want to result from dealing with handling managing incidents of misconduct The phrasing of this question was chosen carefully because it hints at what tends to come first to mind Get back to normal Put this behind us Move ahead Focus on the positive These are natural reactions but what we have learned from the revelations of widespread sexual abuse in churches is that they are not adequate Put this behind us Aren t Christians supposed to be forgiving and similar sentiments all too often amount to sweeping it under the rug or letting it go Genuine grace as Dietrich Bonhoeffer reminded us is not cheap In particular we have learned that justice and recompense for victims must be the first priority for an authentic response to misconduct Scripture has told us this all along When the prophetic books of the Old and New Testaments look to the final Day of the Lord what do they envision For one thing victimizers are removed and punished Secondly the abundance of God s blessings is received by the righteous blessings which were stolen from them in the former reality 1 RESTORATION In responding to incidents of misconduct restoration of victim s well being must take priority This is in line with the contemporary movement for restorative justice which seeks to make victims whole and in which contrition by offenders plays a prominent role Are we doing right by the victim s should be the first question a church asks when considering its actions A common tendency to blame the victim or whistleblower for stirring things up must be resisted Often since the misconduct arose from within the church victims will need to do their healing apart from it Still the church can do its best to see that the victims are provided for 2 REPENTANCE The Gospel of Mark begins with Jesus proclamation that The time has arrived the kingdom of God is upon you Repent and believe the good news 1 15 The Gospel of Luke concludes with the risen Christ s command to proclaim repentance bringing the forgiveness of sins to all nations 24 47 Everywhere in the Bible forgiveness is tied to repentance In other words real change is required before forgiveness can be effective Keeping this in mind can help us avoid the danger of forgiving as letting it go and from accepting mere verbal assurances The burden of proof is on the guilty party to demonstrate both contrition and changed behavior In early America converts had a waiting period of up to three years before becoming full church members just to see if their actions lived up to their professions
16  8. OUTCOMES  RESTORATION, REPENTANCE, FORGIVENESS What do we want to result from dealing with, handling, managing inci...
17 In the context of sexual abuse and other forms of exploitation the truth is that abusers often do not feel that they have done anything wrong and will show contrition only to the extent they feel compelled to play the game Owning up to fault often occurs only after consequences have been felt Congregations are also well advised to do some soul searching when misconduct occurs Did they miss something in the hiring or selection process Had adequate boundaries been defined Did their promotion of an individual serve to enable their offending Had warning signs been missed We like to take collective credit for the successes of our ministries there is also a place for collective repentance 3 FORGIVENESS Forgiveness represents the direct or indirect victims willingness to restore a relationship of good will with the offender Where not inappropriate it may even offer the possibility of a second chance though perhaps not in the same role or situation Some in a congregation will find this difficult even in cases of minor misconduct Others will find it all too easy preferring not really to face the facts of the case Tensions over forgiveness can easily lead to the need for forgiveness among church members who are struggling with their responses Our Puritan forebear John Calvin writes about discipline in his Institutes of the Christian Religion Book IV chapter 12 6 For those unwilling to forgive he reminds us that God always desires the return of the Prodigal Son and the rescue of the lost sheep For those too willing he reminds us that by their actions some people cut themselves off from a kingdom based on love of God and neighbor It is necessary to distinguish between delinquencies and flagrant iniquities In lighter offences there is not so much occasion for severity but verbal chastisement is sufficient and that gentle and fatherly so as not to exasperate or confound the offender but to bring him back to himself so that he may rejoice rather than be grieved at the correction Flagrant iniquities require a sharper remedy It is not sufficient verbally to rebuke him who by some open act of evil example has grievously offended the Church Making these distinctions is one of the most important tasks facing a congregation confronted with incidents of misconduct It needs to be recognized however that many cases will fall somewhere in the middle not egregious enough for the offender to be cut off entirely yet serious enough that he she cannot be restored on the same basis Someone misappropriating funds for instance would likely not be trusted with stewardship of the church s finances On the other hand in the case of child abusers an offender should never continue attending the church in which the offending occurred so as not by his her very presence to re traumatize victims and their families Fellowship is sometimes offered in a different congregation however on the strict condition that that person have no contact with children What outcome is to be desired It is the continued existence of the church as a peaceable kingdom or place of sanctuary based not however on letting offences go and silencing victims
17 In the context of sexual abuse and other forms of exploitation, the truth is that abusers often do not feel that they h...
18 but rather on honest facing of facts and sincere efforts at restoration including recompense repentance and forgiveness
18 but rather on honest facing of facts and sincere efforts at restoration, including recompense, repentance, and forgiven...
19 CONCLUSION NO HURT OR HARM ON GOD S HOLY MOUNTAIN Twice the prophet Isaiah conveys God s promise that one day there will be neither hurt nor harm on my holy mountain Isaiah 11 9 65 25 Our churches strive to be that long sought for place for the people of our communities From time to time however incidents occur that remind us that for all our best efforts what we offer is only an approximation one which we hope will be good enough to keep the promise alive This handbook has sought to highlight this aspect of church and to help church members and leaders understand why violations of ethical standards need to be faced squarely Violations by clergy have drawn the most attention and are particularly important because of the clergy s moral authority and symbolic role as exemplars of the Christian faith The clergy however are not the only ministers in our congregations nor the only ones whose actions are a matter of concern All members assuming leadership or reaching out to others on behalf of the church are engaged in ministry Their actions too must live up to the high standards of the Gospel Allegations of misconduct are wrenching They are handled best when policies and procedures are already in place that assure a well considered and transparent process that rises above the emotions of the moment This handbook has offered practical suggestions in three areas First that churches designate Response Teams to investigate allegations or refer them to civil authorities Second that churches take advantage of the wisdom and experience of the National Association and in cases of substantiated ethical violations by clergy place that information in their Disclosure File so it will be available to other churches considering them for employment Third that in all cases particular people Pastoral Teams be designated to provide pastoral care for victims accusers the accused and the congregation itself Preventing problems always being preferable to having to fix them we further recommend that serious consideration be given by the whole church to clear definitions to roles expectations and boundaries in all areas of church life It is absolutely crucial that safe church policies be adopted for work with children A holy mountain of safety is exactly what people and not only church members look to our churches to be We hope this handbook has proved helpful in making yours just that Again it is important to underline that the National Association cannot prescribe policies or procedures for your church We offer the above in a spirit of fellowship to assist you in developing your own
19  CONCLUSION  NO HURT OR HARM ON GOD   S HOLY MOUNTAIN Twice, the prophet Isaiah conveys God   s promise that one day   ...
20 RESOURCES DENOMINATIONAL RESOURCES National Association of Congregational Christian Churches www naccc org Personal Code of Professional Practice for Ministers NACCC Disclosure Protocol and Policy for Clergy Using NACCC Services Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations www uua org Process for Handling Complaints of Misconduct in Your Congregation May 2001 The UUMA Guidelines for the Conduct of Ministry July 2013 Safe Congregation Handbook April 2011 Balancing Acts April 2013 United Church of Christ www ucc org Making Our Churches Safe for All 2004 Presbyterian Church USA www pcusa org Sexual Misconduct Policies and its Procedures Evangelical Lutheran Church in Canada www elcic ca Sexual Abuse or Harassment Policy 2006 Lutheran Church in America www elca org Safe Connections What Parishioners Can Do to Understand and Prevent Clergy Sexual Abuse 2005 An ELCA Strategy for Responding to Sexual Abuse in the Church 2005 Episcopal Anglican Faithfulness in Service A national code for personal behaviour and the practice of pastoral ministry by clergy and church workers safechurch anglicancommunion org 2006 CHURCH MUTUAL INSURANCE COMPANY www churchmutual com Safety Tips on a Sensitive Subject Child Sexual Abuse 2010
20  RESOURCES DENOMINATIONAL RESOURCES National Association of Congregational Christian Churches  www.naccc.org     Person...
21 Sample Child Abuse Prevention Program 2010 ORGANIZATIONS The Faith Trust Institute www faithtrustinstitute org 2400 N 45th St 10 Seattle WA 98103 877 860 2255 Offers a wide range of sexual abuse resources consulting and training Interim Ministry Network www imnedu org 5470 Executive Drive Suite 220 Baltimore MD 21228 800 235 8414 Dedicated to the health and wellness of congregations The Alban Institute www alban org long the leader in church related research and consulting has recently announced it is closing Important functions will be continued by Consulting Congregational Consulting www congregationalconsulting org Publications Rowman Littlefield publishers rowman com page albanbooks BOOKS Gaede Beth Ann editor When a Congregation is Betrayed Responding to Clergy Misconduct Alban Institute 2006 Horst Elizabeth Questions And Answers About Clergy Sexual Misconduct Interfaith Sexual Trauma Institute 2000 Benyei Candace R Understanding Clergy Misconduct in Religious Systems Scapegoating Family Secrets and the Abuse of Power Haworth Press 1998 Shupe Anson Spoils of the Kingdom Clergy Misconduct and Religious Community University of Illinois Press 2007
21    Sample Child Abuse Prevention Program   , 2010 ORGANIZATIONS The Faith Trust Institute. www.faithtrustinstitute.org ...